w1shf1sh Posted August 16, 2005 Posted August 16, 2005 I've known this girl and her boyfriend for over a year now. We hang out together a lot of the time and they are some of my greatest friends. I have always had a bit of a crush on her but lately my feelings are getting out of hand. I understand why they put in that commandment about "thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's wife" because I have found myself thinking these horrible hateful things towards him when really I know he is one of my truest friends. I guess I'm being taken over by my emotions, and hopefully posting this will help me realize how silly I am being. I don't like to create drama in life, so I'm playing it cool all the time, it's just tough when my heart feels all a flutter around her. I should start looking for love elsewhere and not spoil a great friendship. Thanks for reading.
SUNSHINE143 Posted August 16, 2005 Posted August 16, 2005 It is only natural to see the love they have and want it. Anyone can look at a happy couple and almost be jealous. What you have to remember though is that just because they have it doesn't mean you and her will have it. I think you are more attracted to the idea of having a girl like that than you are to her. That's what happens most of the time. And that's why girls sleep with their best friends boyfriends, they want that love.
Cpunch75 Posted August 16, 2005 Posted August 16, 2005 if your feelings for her are getting out of hand then you need to step back, and start hanging out with other people, if you don't want to disrupt your friendship him and her. But doesnt mean you can't be a great friend to her, but don't steal her away from her guy. Just not cool.
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