CautiouslyOptimistic Posted October 10, 2017 Posted October 10, 2017 Saying "hold on, I will call" without any intention to call at 12.30am is just weird and mean. While i can understand him not calling by 11pm, when I texted him he pretty much put me down by saying to relax and just made me wait more when I was ready to go to sleep. You have no clue what his intention was. You're not a mind reader. Should he have said, "It's kinda late now, can we talk tomorrow?" Probably. But you completely overreacted. Do you understand that he has to walk on egg shells with you? If you're this difficult 3 months in, he's probably wondering what you'd be like a year from now. The bottom line is that in just three months time, you were finding it difficult to coordinate your schedules to see each other enough, so instead of having a conversation about it, you dumped him. 3
smackie9 Posted October 10, 2017 Posted October 10, 2017 Call it quits. I dated someone that always had his schedule full with his basketball, etc, and didn't make time to see me....it was like I was last on his priority list so I dumped him after 3 weeks. Best decision I ever made. 1
LovelyRose Posted October 10, 2017 Posted October 10, 2017 Saying "hold on, I will call" without any intention to call at 12.30am is just weird and mean. While i can understand him not calling by 11pm, when I texted him he pretty much put me down by saying to relax and just made me wait more when I was ready to go to sleep. OK! I'm done here. Best of luck to you.
Kamille Posted October 10, 2017 Posted October 10, 2017 I'm a bit confused about the timeline but... Did you just blow up at your boyfriend on his birthday, the one you had agreed he would spend with his family? I'm sorry you're hurting but imagine if he had done that the night when you were celebrating with your friends. How would you have felt if you were trying to celebrate with friends as planned and he accused you of not being in touch and blew up at you when you said you would call once you get a chance?
Author Annalie Posted October 10, 2017 Author Posted October 10, 2017 (edited) I'm a bit confused about the timeline but... Did you just blow up at your boyfriend on his birthday, the one you had agreed he would spend with his family? I'm sorry you're hurting but imagine if he had done that the night when you were celebrating with your friends. How would you have felt if you were trying to celebrate with friends as planned and he accused you of not being in touch and blew up at you when you said you would call once you get a chance? Sorry, about the confusion. No, last night was his little brother's bday. He also has a twin brother and their bday is tomorrow (two days apart and few years of course). So, he was at his parents house last night, since the little brother still lives with the parents. My bf is going again there on Wed to celebrate and I was supposed to take him out on Thursday. He offered Wed night, when he is back from the parents house, but I was hesitant to make reservations because he has been unreliable with plans (he might just come home really late on wed night). Edited October 10, 2017 by Annalie
smackie9 Posted October 11, 2017 Posted October 11, 2017 Cancel on the idea of celebrating. I don't think he will mind if you didn't. Send his gift in the mail.
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