reozeno Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 Hiya guys, i need ur advice/help Long story short, suddenly my gf wants to break up with me. We talked and its happen due to miscommunication. The topic is my career. After the talk, she said give her time but tells me not to put up much hope. I am devastated as it is miscommunication rather than what i meant. I hope the relationship can work. Should i wait? or move on? *Sorry for bad English
coolheadal Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 Explain more about the career you left out a lot of blanks in your statement above? Do you have to move away or she doesn't want you to take the new career move? So what's really going on?
Author reozeno Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 Explain more about the career you left out a lot of blanks in your statement above? Do you have to move away or she doesn't want you to take the new career move? So what's really going on? Its about career progression. How i wanna get promotion, more salary etc. I cant edit my original post haha
DKT3 Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 When a woman ends a relationship it's never sudden, you just missed the signs.. I'm sure it's something that she has been considering for a while. The best thing to do anytime a relationship ends is focus on your self, both physically and emotionally maybe try to recognize your faults in the relationship and a way to improve in that area. Give her space, don't crowd or beg, not many women find that attractive or respectful. 1
sam light Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 She IS moving on, so you have little choice but to move on yourself. Things were likely more complicated than you suggest. Think about the many reasons (not just one miscommunication) it wasn't working for her. You may find that you can grow into the type of person who be better at relationships in the future. Or you'll learn what kind of person is ideally suited to you.
coolheadal Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 Its about career progression. How i wanna get promotion, more salary etc. I cant edit my original post haha No why is she so upset about your career move? That she wants to break it off with you? Wait did she say it's over already?
Author reozeno Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 No why is she so upset about your career move? That she wants to break it off with you? Wait did she say it's over already? I suppose it is over as she clearly doesn't want to go on but there might be chance to get back together as she need space... About the career, what happen is my job happen to be lower paid.. well, its actually because of the company.i work there due to unemployment n i have to work. However, due to past poor explanation from me, she assume i don't have a plan to move from the job n company. That leads to the break.
Logo Posted October 9, 2017 Posted October 9, 2017 She couldn't come up with an excuse so she is using the career move as one. That way she won't feel guilty and you'll walk away blaming yourself. Have you blocked her number already?
Author reozeno Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 When a woman ends a relationship it's never sudden, you just missed the signs.. I'm sure it's something that she has been considering for a while. The best thing to do anytime a relationship ends is focus on your self, both physically and emotionally maybe try to recognize your faults in the relationship and a way to improve in that area. Give her space, don't crowd or beg, not many women find that attractive or respectful. This actually true, as from the talk, she has said she has been thinking about it for awhile. However, again because of miscommunication...i have explained but cant seem to reach her...
Author reozeno Posted October 9, 2017 Author Posted October 9, 2017 She couldn't come up with an excuse so she is using the career move as one. That way she won't feel guilty and you'll walk away blaming yourself. Have you blocked her number already? I haven't...but should i move on?
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