Guitarisgood Posted October 8, 2017 Posted October 8, 2017 So I matched with this girl on this dating platform. I am currently not looking for anything so was in no hurry to meet her. We went back and forth for two weeks as we got to know each other. I could tell she was dropping hints she'd like to meet. One night I finally relented and we did. We chilled in my 4WD boot watching the sunset with blankets and pillows and some snacks. We ended up making out for a few hours, play fighting and just general cuddling. At the end, she came back to my room but I left it there (I'd recently had a heartbreak because I went too physical too early on and a fling isn't what I am looking for). I walked her to her car and she said,'well it was nice meeting you' in-between us just non-stop kissing. The thing is, the next morning, I sent a quick message to her and all I got was one word replies. So I left it and haven't heard from her in past couple days (I know she works weekends) which is weird when you're use to messaging someone every day. We'd even planned a road trip early on and during the date, she was all planning it etc. So whats my best move? Give her space and message her in a couple days or just move on?
smackie9 Posted October 8, 2017 Posted October 8, 2017 Message her tomorrow and see. IMO if the texting dropped off, when before she responded right away...seems to me it's a no go. It just goes to show you she just wanted a fling and nothing more. Tip: Stay away from women that want to pull you into bed just after meeting. 1
Miss Spider Posted October 8, 2017 Posted October 8, 2017 (edited) She got your message and she's actively choosing to ignore it. Don't be desperate. Maybe she assumed you're not interested or playing games and moved on. You kind of seem uninterested as you used the word "relented" in reference to meeting her. That doesn't sound that enthusiastic. Then you went cold on her after making out for no explicable reason. Women want to feel desired. With all the men available on dating platforms she's not sticking around for someone that doesn't make her feel great. That's reasonable. Edited October 8, 2017 by Cookiesandough
GemmaUK Posted October 8, 2017 Posted October 8, 2017 So I matched with this girl on this dating platform. I am currently not looking for anything so was in no hurry to meet her. We went back and forth for two weeks as we got to know each other. I could tell she was dropping hints she'd like to meet. One night I finally relented and we did. We chilled in my 4WD boot watching the sunset with blankets and pillows and some snacks. We ended up making out for a few hours, play fighting and just general cuddling. At the end, she came back to my room but I left it there (I'd recently had a heartbreak because I went too physical too early on and a fling isn't what I am looking for). I walked her to her car and she said,'well it was nice meeting you' in-between us just non-stop kissing. The thing is, the next morning, I sent a quick message to her and all I got was one word replies. So I left it and haven't heard from her in past couple days (I know she works weekends) which is weird when you're use to messaging someone every day. We'd even planned a road trip early on and during the date, she was all planning it etc. So whats my best move? Give her space and message her in a couple days or just move on? You next move would be to decide what you want - the above is really unclear. But, this lady doesn't sound very into you since meeting you so you'd be better off moving on.
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