daniel04280 Posted October 7, 2017 Posted October 7, 2017 Hello. I am 18 years old and I have just begun college. I want to ask you a question about a girl that I like but doesn't like me back, or at least confuses me to an extent I have no idea what to do. After starting college on late August, I have went out with a girl for dinner (only 2 of us), spent time, went shopping, made out (kissing and cuddling) and have watched a movie together a few times. I made my move for a relationship, and I held her hand, hugged, kissed, and did all kinds of things that only couples do. She didn't reject nor accept it, and I kept doing it and she was smiling all the time. I asked her to be in a relationship with me and she did not accept me but said she did not want a boyfriend now, but she said she liked how I handed her all the time. Hence, I stopped trying to go out with her for a few weeks, but she always asked me out or asked me out to make out with her and I couldn't resist. She then always tells me "I'm not going to date you but we are going to always do this ok?" and I couldn't say "NO" because I still like her. She makes me jealous by obviously kissing multiple guys in front of me (obviously by kissing multiple guys she is not dating all of them) and flirts with them. When she is with me, she sometimes kisses me in front of my friends, but also says "I won't date you, but you are important to me". WTH is this girl doing with me?
in_patient Posted October 7, 2017 Posted October 7, 2017 Hello, Unfortunately, she's told you what she's doing. She's not going to date you and enjoys the 'free' attention from you. Step away from this girl before she begins a serious relationship with another guy in front of you. You're really worth more. 2
smackie9 Posted October 7, 2017 Posted October 7, 2017 College is no place to have a relationship where there is so much opportunity to have fun, random sex, fwb, etc. I say go and do the same thing....be with a lot of girls and enjoy their attention. It's stupid to be tied down at such a young age in a place of so much temptation. You'd be a fool not to take advantage. Enjoy your youth. There will be plenty of time to find a GF after you have finished school, and start your life. 1
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