normal person Posted October 10, 2017 Posted October 10, 2017 The reason behind this is that she just want to play with my feeling. Why bother with someone like this? It is like she takes this relationship for granted. I don't blame her though, I blame myself Don't. Just move on and escape with your dignity. for taking things too seriously for a short period of time. I still love her Read this to yourself again and reevaluate. Best of luck.
act00 Posted October 10, 2017 Posted October 10, 2017 Sorry, but even "just dating" includes cuddling, holding hands, kissing, touching, and basic affection. It doesn't have to include petting, making out, or sex, but the reality is, relationships that progress, even slowly, will get more physical. She puts the stop on basic cuddling, and worse, she dangles the carrot, leads you on, and quickly rejects...just no. You have determined that she is playing games with you, teasing, leading you on, so now you know it's time to move on. You certainly don't need anyone around who likes to play head games. You don't love her. You love the idea of what you wanted and expected with her, and that is not going to happen. You talked for a long time before actually meeting in person, and the in-person girl is not panning out. She sounds manipulative and childish. She seems to enjoy the fairy tale, texting and writing, but actually participating in an adult relationship is not going to happen, at least not with you. You will feel a loss. She's been a major part of your life for a long time. Don't confuse this void you will experience with love. It's more infatuation with a character - you know, like when you have a TV crush on a character - not the same thing, not love.
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