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I don't know what I want


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I feel as though I'm at a crossroads in terms of love. I'm in my mid 20's so I'm definitely not old but for the first time ever I haven't been able to respond to the question of what it is that I want.

On one hand a relationship with someone sounds appealing if it were to happen but I can't seem to get the hook up phase out of my head. I've been in relationships so I don't think I've had my 'fun' phase so to speak and I'm not sure if I'm 100% ready to settle down with the one person yet.

Of course I have that concern in my head that if I have casual sex I will be judged as only girls are, but I'm confused.

I want love but I also want to have fun without it potentially ruining a future relationship. Ugh

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I think only way to find out if you're into casual is to try it out and see.

You may find that you love doing casual.

Or you may find that hooking up is not for you and maybe you can't go through with it at all.

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I think only way to find out if you're into casual is to try it out and see.

You may find that you love doing casual.

Or you may find that hooking up is not for you and maybe you can't go through with it at all.

 

Definitely. I think that makes the most sense. I've never had casual so it's probably just something I'm intrigued by.

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