Girl I was dating wants to stop cause there is another guy

[healing light]

Agree with Donnavain's post 100%. You tell her you don't want to be in a relationship yet but are bent out of shape when you realize she's multi-dating? After sidelining her for years?

 

Please.

[krakakos]

Agree with Donnavain's post 100%. You tell her you don't want to be in a relationship yet but are bent out of shape when you realize she's multi-dating? After sidelining her for years?

 

Please.

 

What you describe is very far from the truth. I sidelined her for a few months, 5 years ago. We were KIDS. And I never said I DON'T want a relationship, I just didn't discuss about it cause I didn't wanna pressure her. I knew she couldn't trust me yet. Anyway, that's a bit irrelevant to the current situation, but I wanted to explain.

 

This is not about her multidating. She picked another guy. He is someone close to her, probably a friend, and maybe there was something going on before we even started dating, but still it doesn't make me feel any better cause I was kinda invested and I felt she was too.

[TheTraveler]

She picked another guy.

 

What is there to talk about? You lost

[krakakos]

What is there to talk about? You lost

 

I guess. Just responding to the messages.

[ExpatInItaly]

She liked you okay, but she likes this other guy more.

 

That's all there is to it. You thought she was really into you, but unfortunately you were mistaken. I would not try to orbit around and act like Plan B.

[krakakos]

She liked you okay, but she likes this other guy more.

 

That's all there is to it. You thought she was really into you, but unfortunately you were mistaken. I would not try to orbit around and act like Plan B.

 

I'm still pretty sure she was really into me (and insecure about it). But obviously not anymore. I'm keeping the NC. Day 5.