hgriffin17 Posted October 5, 2017 Posted October 5, 2017 I've done a pretty good job thus far with online dating. I've been on numerous dates and I even met my last girlfriend on there. The thing Is, I've been in a slight slump so far. I feel like I come off too strong (mainly because I utterly hate small talk). So I dont know, for those of you who use tinder, are there any tips you could give me.
coolheadal Posted October 5, 2017 Posted October 5, 2017 I've done a pretty good job thus far with online dating. I've been on numerous dates and I even met my last girlfriend on there. The thing Is, I've been in a slight slump so far. I feel like I come off too strong (mainly because I utterly hate small talk). So I dont know, for those of you who use tinder, are there any tips you could give me. Put that down in your profile you don't like small talk. Tinder is not really a relationship app just casual, quick sex type. What do you expect form that app long-term nope not with that one. Yo Cute is fun one you get so see and hear women prior from their videos.
Cranberri Posted October 5, 2017 Posted October 5, 2017 From a girls perspective, small talk makes meeting up feel less "weird". It makes us feel like we know you a little bit, and not like we are about to meet up with a complete stranger. I would say, do a little bit of small talk & then ask to meet up. 1
coolheadal Posted October 5, 2017 Posted October 5, 2017 From a girls perspective, small talk makes meeting up feel less "weird". It makes us feel like we know you a little bit, and not like we are about to meet up with a complete stranger. I would say, do a little bit of small talk & then ask to meet up. No matter what we're all strangers until you get to know them in person. Small talk or any can of talk it better than nothing. I can't just sit quiet and not get to know the woman. If she's shy in person and not shy in text or talking on the cell then there is a problem to deal with but once a long time ago we all were shy at one point. It's not a deal breaker for me. 1
Miss Spider Posted October 5, 2017 Posted October 5, 2017 ask out relatively quickly and be attractive(not just physically but whole package) 1
The Urbanyst Posted October 5, 2017 Posted October 5, 2017 Don't try to appeal to the majority of women. Be authentic and let your individuality show. Its less work and you will attract women who actually like you. 4
No_Go Posted October 5, 2017 Posted October 5, 2017 Don't try to appeal to the majority of women. Be authentic and let your individuality show. Its less work and you will attract women who actually like you. ^ The best advice for any dating scenario. Personally nothing repels me faster than a guy trying too hard to fit in.
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