Changes_life Posted October 3, 2017 Posted October 3, 2017 (edited) I have been dating this guy off and on for 3yrs. About a year ago I walked away from him because I wanted more and he was not ready to commit. I stayed away from him for a whole year, ignored calls and messages even though I still missed him. I thought about him everyday for a while and then it got easier. I started dating other guys but I never had the same connection with other guys as I did with him so unfortunately I fell weak and went back to him when he called. I explained to him how much I was hurt by the way we ended things. I also thought at that time there was another woman even though he denied it. He said he knows how much he hurt me and he is going to try to do better this time around. I feel like he has done a little better but I feel like he still lies. I have even caught him in lies. I don't feel like I can ever trust him. I really feel like I deserve better but no matter how much I feel that way I can't seem to walk away. I love him so much but I know he is not good for me and will not be good for my future. I'm starting to find myself being mean and doing things to push him away. I know I need to tell him I can't continue in this situation. What should I do? Edited October 3, 2017 by Changes_life
Jagged100 Posted October 3, 2017 Posted October 3, 2017 You need to trust your gut and move on but for good this time. Only you can make the choice to turn the page and really give yourself a chance to start a new life. Why do you want to be with someone you can't trust? You already know what you need, you're just afraid to do it. It's understandable but just remember this is time you'll never get back.
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