Oliviasmith24 Posted October 2, 2017 Posted October 2, 2017 I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now and have known him for 2 years. Prior to dating me, he cheated on his first girlfriend. He hasn't cheated on me or else I'd be far gone by now because I don't put up with that. I know I'm not the most confident chick in the world, but why do I have such a hard time accepting his past and accepting that he isn't a perfect person? Even though I've probably had more lovers in my past than he has, his past seems to bother me even more than my own. I seem to hold him to a very high standard. I trust him most of the time, but small things set me off on these anxiety-driven rampages. I know that I could just break up with him but I know I won't find this type of love from a different guy.
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted October 2, 2017 Posted October 2, 2017 How old are you guys and how does he feel about his past cheating? Is he remorseful?
minou23 Posted October 2, 2017 Posted October 2, 2017 I don't believe the saying "once a cheater always a cheater". Did you ever ask him why he cheated?
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