Peggy92 Posted October 1, 2017 Posted October 1, 2017 Hello everyone, I would like your advice. I met this guy a couple of months ago at his aunt's house (His aunt is a family friend). We talked a little and he told that he would go for drinks on Saturday and asked me to join him. I told him that I was busy with work. A couple of weeks ago we met again. I was again with his aunt and my mom. He joined us and he was flirting with me all the time. He even asked me to go to a wedding with him. So we arranged to go for drinks the next Saturday. On Friday I sent him a message to confirm and arrange where we would meet. He told me to join him and his friends for starters but I am really shy so I told him that I would call him to tell him where me and my friend are so he could join us later. He seemed really excited about it. So yesterday I called him and his phone was switched off. He doesn't seem like the guy that would do this on purpose. I mean he is 33 years old and he's really nice. Should I send him a message? Thank you and sorry for the long post.....
coolheadal Posted October 1, 2017 Posted October 1, 2017 Hi there! Wait Peggy, let him do the chasing instead of you doing it. You and him should be going out not him and his friends. That's not a date that's a hangout with friends. If he's interested in getting to know you he will not stop to get in touch with you. If he's not interested you will know he won't call or text you. So I would wait and see what he does. Are you sure he's not seeing anyone else or is he married? His cell phone battery might have gone dead? How do you know he turned off his phone? Did it go straight to voice mail?
d0nnivain Posted October 1, 2017 Posted October 1, 2017 You can text if you like but there is something to be said for letting him taste you. He seems like a guy who prefers things to be easy for him so he doesn't have to work. He flirts with you at his aunt's but not in between. He wants you to come with him to hang out with his friends, which is not a date & shows no effort. He already invited you to a wedding so he doesn't have to go through the trouble of finding a date.
BaileyB Posted October 1, 2017 Posted October 1, 2017 I think, you meant to say "chase" you... I'm also not a fan of the "I'm going out with my friends, you should come along..." dates - especially for a first date. How are you supposed to get to know each other in a group environment? And - he should put a little more effort into it! I would wait for him to call or text him back and say "I tried to call, your phone was off. Let's try to get together again sometime..." and see what he does... If he really likes you and wants to get to know you better, he will make it happen. Good luck!
d0nnivain Posted October 1, 2017 Posted October 1, 2017 You can text if you like but there is something to be said for letting him taste you. I think, you meant to say "chase" you... I did. Whoops.
Author Peggy92 Posted October 1, 2017 Author Posted October 1, 2017 I couldn't resist so I sent him a message on facebook to see if he is ok. It's seen but he hasn't answered. It's been 6 hours. So I think I got an answer through his silence. Thank you for your replies!
coolheadal Posted October 1, 2017 Posted October 1, 2017 I couldn't resist so I sent him a message on facebook to see if he is ok. It's seen but he hasn't answered. It's been 6 hours. So I think I got an answer through his silence. Thank you for your replies! Maybe he wasn't on FB, why didn't you call his cell phone?
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