Huntr777 Posted August 15, 2005 Posted August 15, 2005 Hello to all, wow been a long time since I posted on here, how has everybody been? OK, have a question…last year I met this girl, totally flipped over her, just didn’t work out…but we did stay friends. Her and I would talk every so often, email all the time, etc. At first it was "we can talk just as friends, nothing more" and I wanted to give it a shot. After a while I knew that I wanted more than just friendship from her, but I know she didn’t feel the same about me. So I decided just to walk away from the friendship, no emails, phone calls, nothing, and keep meeting new girls and eventually I would just forget about her. All was well for 3 weeks, then I’m down the beach and we bump into each other. She gave me a nice hug, said what a nice surprise it was to see me, and POOF, there goes that idea about not seeing her again. So that whole week I’m trying to not think about her, and again last week at the beach we bump into each other again, and again can’t stop thinking about her. I know she’s not following me, it’s just on chance we meet. Is this fate telling me not to walk away? If I pursue her I don’t really think that’s the best idea…anybody want to weigh on this? Should I just keep walking away like I’m trying to, or do I see what fate has in store for me here? Huntr
alphamale Posted August 15, 2005 Posted August 15, 2005 Originally posted by Huntr777 Should I just keep walking away like I’m trying to, or do I see what fate has in store for me here? women are for having sexual relationships with....not for being friends with.
Author Huntr777 Posted August 15, 2005 Author Posted August 15, 2005 Hi there She, well, we went out a couple of times, and had a lot of fun. I don't know why it didn't work out when we met, I won't rehash the past here, but she just didn't see her and I being together. Fine, so I just walk away...and boom, there she is... Huntr
she_9325 Posted August 15, 2005 Posted August 15, 2005 well i say go for it. if you don't then you'll always wonder, right?
Author Huntr777 Posted August 16, 2005 Author Posted August 16, 2005 But how the heck am I supposed to do that without persuing her? T
Art_Critic Posted August 16, 2005 Posted August 16, 2005 Originally posted by Huntr777 But how the heck am I supposed to do that without persuing her? T It's easy .. Just never talk to her again That way you aren't persuing her and you are showing her that you care .
Author Huntr777 Posted August 16, 2005 Author Posted August 16, 2005 You know the funny thing Art, is that's what I've been doing...not talking to her, no emails, etc...and we bump into each other again, and again. I'm seriously trying to not talk to her, why does this happen? T
Author Huntr777 Posted August 16, 2005 Author Posted August 16, 2005 Another dumb question Art, how am I showing her I care if I don't talk to her? T
she_9325 Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 just be all chill-like & talk to her in a friend-ish way. find out how she's been, what she's been up to... what she's got going on in her life. then just take things from there.... see if she wants to have lunch w/you sometime or something like that...... you'll start getting a feel for how she's responding from there.......
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