Computergeek Posted September 29, 2017 Posted September 29, 2017 I was talking to this guy that I met through this online dating app for about a week, after a few messages exchanged he suggested we meet up for games and drinks soon. I told me for sure and I gave him my number to text. He texted me and said that, we should "try" to together this week, I told him that sounded great, then he asked me what time I got off work, so that he can "help plan for us to meet up." I told him my schedule, then he texted back and asked me a random question if I liked our local baseball team and then told me have a good night. I haven't heard from him for 2 days and just now I saw that deleted his account. I don't know what happened? I told him that we should meet up, he didn't go through with his plans to set a time, place. I was waiting for him to make make the arrangements. Was he flaking out or should I have asked him when, what time and where??? And what the hell was he asking him a stupid question about being baseball fan when he didn't bother asking me when to meet?
kendahke Posted September 29, 2017 Posted September 29, 2017 His girlfriend probably found him on the dating app and blew him up.
coolheadal Posted September 29, 2017 Posted September 29, 2017 I say it met someone else to go to the local baseball game. It would have been a baseball date. Really don't want to do that.. Don't bother to think he'll contact you ever again. These things happen, he could be married you just don't know until you go out with them. If you can't go back to their place that's a good sign live in gf or married wife is lurking in the house as well!
Author Computergeek Posted September 29, 2017 Author Posted September 29, 2017 Well, when he asked me that question about our baseball team, I thought that he was going along the lines of wanting to go to the game, which I wouldn't have mind going to, I didn't tell him that I hated baseball. Aside from him possibly dating someone else, not interested in this situations does the woman have to be aggressive and suggest when to meet up?
coolheadal Posted September 29, 2017 Posted September 29, 2017 Well, when he asked me that question about our baseball team, I thought that he was going along the lines of wanting to go to the game, which I wouldn't have mind going to, I didn't tell him that I hated baseball. Aside from him possibly dating someone else, not interested in this situations does the woman have to be aggressive and suggest when to meet up? But baseball game on the first date would only be for a fun, nothing serious he would have his mind on the game not you. Just be like buddy to him. He can tell you anything he wants too. You can suggest where to meet-up. I've been on dates where the women told me where to meet them. Sometimes a local sports bar and sometimes mall or movies. I rather them trust me so I can go to where they live and pick them up. I would call them on their cell to say I am here come on out! Open door to my SUV and get them in there. I say talk to the guy for a couple of hours or days to get use to them. Everyone rushes to date and then you have this stuff to deal with. Really those you work with would know you better than some stranger off a dating site you know. Others here disagree but that's what I did, having a different experience now. I hope it continues.. I do lot more when it comes to dating. Since I give out advice here on LS and also apply to my life.. Makes sense..
TheFinalWord Posted September 30, 2017 Posted September 30, 2017 I was talking to this guy that I met through this online dating app for about a week, after a few messages exchanged he suggested we meet up for games and drinks soon. I told me for sure and I gave him my number to text. He texted me and said that, we should "try" to together this week, I told him that sounded great, then he asked me what time I got off work, so that he can "help plan for us to meet up." I told him my schedule, then he texted back and asked me a random question if I liked our local baseball team and then told me have a good night. I haven't heard from him for 2 days and just now I saw that deleted his account. I don't know what happened? I told him that we should meet up, he didn't go through with his plans to set a time, place. I was waiting for him to make make the arrangements. Was he flaking out or should I have asked him when, what time and where??? And what the hell was he asking him a stupid question about being baseball fan when he didn't bother asking me when to meet? He either got cold feet or was dating someone else and wants to see where it goes (sounds like he might have gotten a message to one girl, mixed up with another). 1
Miss Spider Posted September 30, 2017 Posted September 30, 2017 People decide they don't want to meet for a variety of reasons. Don't trouble yourself with figuring out why, just find someone who does
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