Breaking Engagement

[Lovelychick]

So its a long story but me and my exfiance met on Okcupid dating app. Last year and dated until he proposed on my bday in July 2016 and broke up in August due to his insecurities. But apologized and got back together in September and to compromise i decided to move in with him even though i didnt believe in that for religious reasons but i was showing how much i actually cared and loved him. By February 2017 I decided to end it because of his negative attitude towards the situation with my family which wasnt bad because they were moving out of state due to my dads job transfer. He kept making excuses that he didnt want to keep me away from my family and other stuff. I was sad and was going to miss family but i was willing to stay with him because i loved him. I even suggested getting our marriage licence at court and plan small wedding before my family moving but he was against it and said it wasnt right moment. I was upset and tried compromising alot with him but his negativity that i gave up and moved out.

 

Update, i last saw him was in July 2017(on my bday) he took me out to eat and was being all nice and bought me flowers. But we ended up arguing because i thought he wanted to get back but he just spent most of conversation talking about his coworker (female) and how they hooked up but he doesnt want anything serious. She has kids and bf but shes only using my ex for hookups and pays him. I told him his messed up and we stopped seeing each other. He sometimes messages me but i rarely respond and he had me blocked for 2 months on Facebook, until September (his bday) he unblocked me. I noticed due to mutual friends comments. I ofcoarse blocked him only on messenger because i wanted no contact. And he somehow contacted me on Linkedin. I responded 2 weeks later just basic happy bday and good luck and he responded within an hour "Thank you. " but now 2 days ago he textes my phone wanting to know how i been but i havent responded and it confuses me. He still has our pictures on his facebook. I took mine downalong time ago to cope with breakup. But i feel he still misses me but doesnt manup to tell me instead of sleeping around and trying to get me jealous and run back to him. Which wont work because im not stupid. I remember he last mentioned b4 our breakup that since he brokeup first he chose to come back but because i decided to breakup that i should go back to him. I find that stupid and immature. I only broke up because of his negativity and pushing me away emotionally. Now blames me i made him that way sleeping with random girls.

 

 

He is handling everything immature and also i was his first serious gf and sex partner.

Edited September 28, 2017 by Lovelychick

[d0nnivain]

You didn't make him do anything. It was all on him.

 

 

You recognize that he's being immature. Let him. Just go NC & get on with your life.