Rko28 Posted September 27, 2017 Posted September 27, 2017 Let me start this by saying it’s 100% true story and actually is my friend that it happened to: My best friend finished with his Gf of 1 year in February this year, he wasn’t feeling it anymore, he loved her but wasn’t in love, something wasn’t right anymore and he didn’t know what....sounds familiar to me getting dumped right? Well fast forward a few months, he met someone else, had a 5 month relationship with them (I thought all was going well) until last night he called me up. He had finished with his gf... why? Because the past few weeks he realised how much he loves his ex and he misses her. He sees his ex most days as he works with her (civil, but not any friendly conversation) So this leads back to my predicament, I know not everyone is the same but my god this has made me see that they can come back and change their feelings My friend is as steady as they come, doesn’t do drama etc and is scared to tell the girl how he feels because he’s worried what her family will think etc. Im probably wrong thinking this but I’m having huge hope my ex will come back. Not for one minute did I think he missed her, he didn’t look bothered or act bothered but last night when he opened up I saw it all. A genuine love for her. Can I get my ex back?
Giggles666 Posted September 27, 2017 Posted September 27, 2017 Depending on the breakup scenario and details you don't want her back. You just wait to see what happens to your friend. Stay NC and move on, you should never be a plan B. Your friend used someone as a plan B, and chances are pretty high the person he was dating is a mess now. Chances are also pretty high your friend will be a mess shortly also. Marriages can be a different story especially with children. MOVE ON FOR YOUR OWN WELL BEING. In this world of dating and relationships HOPE is not your friend, it's the enemy/ 2
Blanco Posted September 27, 2017 Posted September 27, 2017 (edited) You really need to let this go, man. edit: to elaborate - it is not productive to latch on to the exceptions to the rule. This girl gave you reasons why she wanted to dissolve the relationship; valid reasons. To let some outliers to the rule that breakups are usually the end of a relationship is not any different than the gambling addict who lets the occasional winning hand justify his constant losing. Edited September 27, 2017 by Blanco 1
Nonameguy123 Posted September 27, 2017 Posted September 27, 2017 Let me just save you the headache . I am in your shoes now and after 3 months no contact , she started being friendly and texting me again. Like an idiot I was too nice and started falling back in the trap while she's still parading around with the other guy . If they come back it's just a selfish thing to see if you've moved on and get whatever info they can , they don't really care about you. Just not worth it trust me
Buriall Posted September 27, 2017 Posted September 27, 2017 RKO Ive read your story, you are still hung up on the idea of your ex returning. You and your buddy's circumstances are different. If your buddy's ex takes him back I feel bad for that girl. Do yourself a favor and go seek professional help.
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