bmne90 Posted September 26, 2017 Posted September 26, 2017 There's this woman who works in the admissions office in my university, handling the admissions for new/transfer students. She then shoots me a message asking me where the hell I am and if I'm back in town. I tell her I transferred out, and she seemed really sad and asked me where I transferred to and all that. My new school isn't that far away, so I told her that I'd still be around the area to drop by and say hi. She then says I'm welcome to come back anytime so that she can "beat me up" lol. I responded, "am I really that bad?" She goes, "Yeah. I gotta eat more so I can actually beat you up, haha." So my question is, is she flirting with me? Or is she just joking around and trying to be funny because I'm really bad at reading signs... Thanks in advance
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted September 26, 2017 Posted September 26, 2017 Just friendly coworker banter. I think OP is a student. How'd she even have your phone number to text you? Is she a recent grad? Are you two friends? 1
angel.eyes Posted September 26, 2017 Posted September 26, 2017 Joking around. My guess: you were on a list of students who hadn't re-registered that she was supposed to call for follow-up.
Author bmne90 Posted September 26, 2017 Author Posted September 26, 2017 Yeah, currently a student in college. So she texted me because she gives out her number to students who may need her help, etc. And we're not exactly "friends", since she is a little bit older than me and may have graduated quite a while ago
Author bmne90 Posted September 26, 2017 Author Posted September 26, 2017 I think OP is a student. How'd she even have your phone number to text you? Is she a recent grad? Are you two friends? Yeah, currently a student in college. So she texted me because she gives out her number to students who may need her help, etc. And we're not exactly "friends", since she is a little bit older than me and may have graduated quite a while ago
d0nnivain Posted September 26, 2017 Posted September 26, 2017 Her casual language tells me she is either incredibly unprofessional or she is flirting with you. I'd write back something like "Since you plan to eat more so you can beat me up, wanna meet me at [insert name of fun / hip / cheap place midway between where you are & her work] on [pick a day & after work time] for a [burger / slice / drink]?" See what she says. 2
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