Love2015 Posted September 26, 2017 Posted September 26, 2017 Lately on all my dates..I encounter the following ..men who are into me and want to know me and also show being physically attracted They say its not for sex..once they get it though and I start getting more interested...they show some other woman exists...either they are married, are not over their exes...or bluntly say they only want sex when all along they wanted more.... The last guy 2 weeks ago msgs saying his ex gf in town and he can't be with two woman I really liked him and thought he did too.since 3 days he started msging again and calling m sweet names...so I agreed to meet him today. But it never happened He just said 2 hours after sending me kisses that he can't do it...he wants to be friends with benefits and if not he is confused. I told him lets at least meet and talk. He did not want to and said let us talk on phone. I had it..gave him a piece of my mind...but never heard from him since...I just feel every time I have hope...my heart gets smashed. I also dont think you have to wait too long (2 -3 months) before having sex What am I doing wrong?
Steve51 Posted September 26, 2017 Posted September 26, 2017 I keep posting that men are genetically designed to have sex with as many women as possible. They will lie or do anything to get into a woman's pants. However it can run the other way too. I once met a woman who flirted with me and pursued me. We finally had sex and her husband shows up. She did not wear a wedding ring or have a mark on her finger. She never mentioned a husband and kids. I tell my wife that woman are gullible. They should know that if a man's lips are moving and they are horny, they are lying.
EthanSPK Posted September 26, 2017 Posted September 26, 2017 Maybe you should stop giving yourself so easily? I mean, no one can do anything to you if you don't allow them in the first place (please please PLEASE, I don't want anyone telling me "But Ethan, what about rape? Are you telling that they allowed it? Hmmmm?")
Author Love2015 Posted September 26, 2017 Author Posted September 26, 2017 Thanks for the replies. Ethan...I agree it is consensual sex ...my thing is sex is a natural part of a relationship....i dont sleep first date ...but within 2-3 months...and I am not in my 20s...I just dont seem to get past it....I also ask about how is the sex..and they like it. I dont know if i am projecting anger from my ex hb who had cheated onto this new men or why cant I seem to find someone who wants to know me in and out of bed...and why their excuse is usually the existance of another woman. When they say that I back off completely. I would never knowingly take a man from someone else....
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