Amelendez95 Posted September 25, 2017 Posted September 25, 2017 So to sum things it's been 2 1/2 months since my ex has left me we were together for almost 3 years while the first couple of days sucked I was able to pull myself together and start accomplishing my goals I've gotten back in amazing shape at the gym and I'm now a personal trainer. Just recently I had a dream about my ex and in that dream we had gotten back together and things were perfect. So when I had woke up I feel like complete crap it has been bugging me the last couple days. I had also felt bad that I had ignored when she tried to contact me a month go but it was just a lazy breadcrumb. I had almost broke NC today but luckily I was able to fight it. I do miss her a lot and I miss alll the little things.
Buriall Posted September 25, 2017 Posted September 25, 2017 Dont give into the temptation. Dont break NC keep riding waves of the emotions. It will settle itself out. Think back to why you guys broke up in the first place...
CeciliaCylara Posted September 25, 2017 Posted September 25, 2017 Ugh, I had a few dreams about getting back together with my ex during the initial days of NC. They're gone now, so hang in there. Time will deal with these.
ayoung73 Posted September 27, 2017 Posted September 27, 2017 It sounds like you’re well on your way to complete recovery, remain strong and keep moving forward with your success! It does suck, there will be days or years from now a familiar heartstring will be tugged and missing her will come back like a flood. I’ve had it happen with several women I really cared about in the past, but the NC helps to fortify your wounds, allowing them to heal, for your to become stronger and to give you the ability to make sound decisions about this relationship and the future. If this relationship is meant to be, it will be, but this is something you need to go through, to learn from, and to deal with. I don’t say this because I believe in karma or fate, I am a Christian; and although it sucks, this is an opportunity for you to grow, use it as you have been, get yourself physically, mentally, and spiritually stronger.
ontheway Posted September 27, 2017 Posted September 27, 2017 I had also felt bad that I had ignored when she tried to contact me a month go but it was just a lazy breadcrumb. I had almost broke NC today but luckily I was able to fight it. I do miss her a lot and I miss alll the little things. If you wanted her back you shouldn't have ignored her. You should've answered that text and said hey great to hear from you when are you free to get together? She reached out to you because you were on her mind.
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