triathlete Posted August 14, 2005 Posted August 14, 2005 I need advice. I am in my mid 20's, and I find myself really matching up with someone. I've known her for a few months now, and we see each other when we have the time. I met her family. She is very stable, career-wise, financially, etc, etc. (As am I.) She has a 7 year old, which I totally get along with. The thing is, she is in her late 30's. Right now I am trying to return to school for my bachelor's and I plan on entering med school afterwards. Am I doing okay? I've never been known to date anyone my age, and I would date only a certain culture, but now, I am dating an older woman of a different culture, and I like it. (I find myself thinking about her all the time. We would make a great couple.) Am I going to put her though something she doesn't deserve? I mean, I probably have about 10 years of school left, and that's not including working as a resident. I'm not thinking too far ahead, and I don't want to waste anyone's time. I don't think I will have a problem seeing her, every now and then, but I don't want to deprive her of relationship opportunities. Neither her nor I would have any difficulty finding dates and we are both very picky.
JanieQP Posted August 15, 2005 Posted August 15, 2005 About 'wasting her time' : all any of us has is today. I say, go for it. Have you cooked together yet? Try something like that, where you can talk and maybe find out what she's feeling. She might think she has no chance since you're so much younger, and she doesn't want to waste =your= time.
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