Jessicajones84 Posted September 23, 2017 Posted September 23, 2017 I'm diving back into the dating world after finally coming to terms with my 5 and a half year relationship ending. I am finding 'the rules' tricky - I just don't get it at all. Or I'm not sure if I am just really over thinking things..! I met this guy online and we went out for a drink the night before last. He went out of his way to sit with me on the tube to get me home, msged me when I got home and I woke up to a text from him in the morning. We then had a few flirty texts during the day and in the eve he asked me what I was up to that night. I reply and ask him the same question to which I get no response! I find all this so bizarre. If he wasn't fussed about me then why "escort" me on the tube and message me the next day. Am I majorly over thinking this?? He's been online since (whatsapp) but hasn't looked at my message and it's been 24 hours now. Why bother messaging in the first place? I took it that if a guy likes you, you know. Or maybe I have too much time on my hands right now lol.
smackie9 Posted September 23, 2017 Posted September 23, 2017 The best come back would have been "Why hanging out with YOU! lol What did you have in mind?" Message him on the dating app.
Miss Spider Posted September 23, 2017 Posted September 23, 2017 (edited) If the date went all that well for him, there's no way he would've signed onto the app and not even looked at the messages. Sorry. I swear that read receipts were invented to fuel neurosis. They serve no other purpose Edited September 23, 2017 by Cookiesandough They serve no other purpose
smackie9 Posted September 23, 2017 Posted September 23, 2017 I have a feeling that message wasn't intentionally for you.
coolheadal Posted September 23, 2017 Posted September 23, 2017 Why don't you buzz him call him on Whatapp. i bet he's on the phone with some other chick. if it's busy then you have your answer.. Move on...
Author Jessicajones84 Posted September 23, 2017 Author Posted September 23, 2017 Thanks for the advice. Yeah i totally get that. If he was excited about me, there's no way he would've logged in to WhatsApp last night & not even looked at my msg. I just don't get the prior messages, he could've just not text me at all after the date. I will now block him I think! 2
smackie9 Posted September 23, 2017 Posted September 23, 2017 Maybe he was hoping you would have invited him to "wink" stay over for the night, and you didn't.
Author Jessicajones84 Posted September 23, 2017 Author Posted September 23, 2017 Maybe he was hoping you would have invited him to "wink" stay over for the night, and you didn't. He hasn't even read my reply! (From what I can see on whatsapp)
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