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GF (26F) Keeps cancelling date on the day of. What should I(27M) do


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I've been dating this girl I met on POF for about 2 months. Everything's been going fine but lately she has been cancelling dates the day of due to work. She works as a line cook at a hotel. I understand the business she's in but it seems kind of odd that she always have to work a double the day of the date. She usually initiates txts and calls but I am confused as to what I should do. This is my first relationship and I'm not sure where to go from here. I voiced my concern to her and she says that she will try to make a better effort but she is slammed working 6 days a week. Should I ask her to try to find time for me or should I just walk away?

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Well you have your answer she told you he's works double the work so you either wait or you just don't. That's up to you to decide. Can you afford to take care of her needs and yours if you can tall her then she doesn't have to work so hard you can pay all her bills so she can be with you 100%. Of course you have to work so she can be with you 50%.. Life is not easy my friend we men put up or shut up and we have to deal with all sorts of blocks to a perfect relationship if it can be so..

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seems a bit odd that you'd have plans and then she would schedule an extra shift...why wouldn't she do an extra shift on a different day. maybe she is taking you for granted.

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