morixpun1 Posted September 22, 2017 Posted September 22, 2017 (how it started) first my sing is cancer and we have been together on and off for 7 years 5 months ago I told the one that I love to be friends cus I was scared of the whole thing and that we are young it may not work and I had that grey moment when I felt that I don't have any feelings we used to have a lot of problems at that time we fight every 2 day and I cried alot and I hated it .. I was trying to get into med school and I was away from my family all alone and he was scared and jealous and he didn't have so much confidence in himself at that time and all that have put alot of pressure on me and I used to take it all on him I treated him really bad and I hate myself alot for being that mean to him I was super stupid he tried to leave med school for one year just to be with me and help me that how much he loved me and we dreamed about having a family and we had our first baby name ready ! - (what was happening in the 5 months? breakup ) in the 5 months I was trying to change my self , trying to be a better person for him cus he deserve it but my mistake is that I didn't show him much love nor care I was focused on changing myself he didn't even know that I was doing that for him ... he thought I stopped loving him and I was not ready to commit I asked him at the beining if he sees me as a friend he said ( after u asked me to be a friend I started to try and to convince my self and it has been like this for a while ) though he say that I know he still love me cus I have asked him a while ago if we love each other why we don't just get back together and he said ( I love u and u love me but its not all love we won't work ) he is so scared of committing to me after the pain he went through during me not being his gf ! (after a month of the breakup) he met this girl???.. at first he said after I asked him if he have feelings for her? t he said { like her } at first she told him that she loves him and stuff but he still don't love her just he likes her:) ( .. now few days ago) we started to sleep on each other voice and we voice talk and play his fav online game I make him laugh alot and I show him that I care about him and I ask him if he eat and stuff like that yesterday when we was on the phone he said "do u know how sweet ur ?" he say stuff like this but he never tells me that he love me and he try not to show it so I'm lost do he want me or not?! he said that he don't want me to feel that I'm left alone cus of anyone and though he said that he felt feeling for that girl but he think now she is just a friend he said that he have fun talking to me more and he do stuff with me as if I was his gf but he is so scared to try cus he got hurt and he is not willing to get closer to anyone at this moment he think its better if he keep focusing on his study (he is a med student ) cus he doesn't want to get hurt or feel pain again.. - ... my bff she said not to tell him that I love him or ask him to get back together I need to give him space and just to take care of him and prove that I have changed I'm doing my best I want him back (((( HE IS THE ONE I WANT TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH HIM)))) - I'm ready to try for months but I don't know what to do and how to get him to trust me again with his heart?! - do I stop him when he try to act intimate like bf ? so he know that he needs to be with me if he still crave me that much?! - do I need to not talk to him alot ? and care less by time so he can have a chance to miss me being in his life? (( what should I do ))? especially that he is going to be busy with collage cus he is a med student I won't be able to talk to him alot , I'm scared of what will happen how can I prove to virgo man that we will work and make him stop feeling scared of being hurt !...
RobMele Posted September 22, 2017 Posted September 22, 2017 lol you dont love ths guy give him a break, your ego is having a little diva moment cause he met someone.. keep moving 100% 1
Author morixpun1 Posted September 22, 2017 Author Posted September 22, 2017 lol you dont love ths guy give him a break, your ego is having a little diva moment cause he met someone.. keep moving 100% u don't know whats in my heart if I didn't love him I wouldn't give 4 months of my life changing for him nor kept loyal to him for 7 years , would someone with an ego and only selflove do that ?! and I even told him I want to try cus I'm a new person and I want give it all my best before I know she was even in his life !
basil67 Posted September 22, 2017 Posted September 22, 2017 The only way to prove that you will work is to have made the relationship work while you were in it. If you couldn't make it work then, there's no reason to think it will work now. Time to move on. Plenty of more opportunities out there who may meet your needs.
Author morixpun1 Posted September 22, 2017 Author Posted September 22, 2017 The only way to prove that you will work is to have made the relationship work while you were in it. If you couldn't make it work then, there's no reason to think it will work now. Time to move on. Plenty of more opportunities out there who may meet your needs. I have faith and I have alot to put into it (I just need) support and ideas I don't need words to bring me down not to tell me to leave it if a person isn't welling to try to fix then it isn't love nor it meant anything to him
oldbutcurious Posted September 30, 2017 Posted September 30, 2017 Once done, virgos don;t go back. Maybe, you can try and prove to him you have changed, care for him more this time, be patient, and treat him like your prince. But I am not saying you can win him back. Just try.
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