This guy makes no sense!

[Katz123]

I went out with him over a month ago and ever since then he's texted me sometimes, and said he wanted to see me but never made an actual date. So when I asked him why, he said because he couldn't think of anywhere fun for us to go and he was busy with work. And now he's begging me to go out. What do you think of this?

[coolheadal]

Isn't the same one who cheated on you? Why would you consider going after someone who was busy (really dating someone else) and now all of a sudden wants to go out with you.

[Katz123]

He didn't cheat on me, we've only been out once.

[Miss Spider]

He's treating you as a backup option!!!!He's not that interested in seeing you again, but he's not ready to unhook you just in case

[umirano]

I went out with him over a month ago and ever since then he's texted me sometimes, and said he wanted to see me but never made an actual date. So when I asked him why, he said because he couldn't think of anywhere fun for us to go and he was busy with work. And now he's begging me to go out. What do you think of this?

 

Nuh-uh... if it was my date, anyway. If someone wants to go out with you, they'll be more creative than a Hollywood script writer and will make time everyday.

[Zahara]

I went out with him over a month ago and ever since then he's texted me sometimes, and said he wanted to see me but never made an actual date. So when I asked him why, he said because he couldn't think of anywhere fun for us to go and he was busy with work. And now he's begging me to go out. What do you think of this?

 

He couldn't think of anywhere to take you on a second date? And then busy with work? Yep, excuses. He's not very interested but keeping you on backburner. When a guy is into you, he's going to find ways to keep you interested.

[coolheadal]

He didn't cheat on me, we've only been out once.

 

You said he's busy at work, how do you know he's busy at work? Why are you considering to be with such a man that doesn't have the time for you. If he was interested do you think for one minute he wouldn't be contacting you everyday.. Sounds like he as cheated with you in a way.. When they say they're busy the are using busy with another woman.

[smackie9]

This guy fails.....ditch him.

[GemmaUK]

Why are you giving him time or thought?

 

He sounds like a flake and a lot of hard work.

[SmartDude]

I went out with him over a month ago and ever since then he's texted me sometimes, and said he wanted to see me but never made an actual date. So when I asked him why, he said because he couldn't think of anywhere fun for us to go and he was busy with work. And now he's begging me to go out. What do you think of this?

 

When he said he wanted to see you did you respond positively? Did you volunteer times you might be available? He may have been waiting for some acknowledgment that you like him. I have done this before myself..

[Paljoey]

If he gave a flying fidget spinner about u he would make time. Invite you with his friends etc. I see so many girls wait on ****ty guys just because hes better looking. Give another guy a shot. Maybe a guy you can learn something from or enjoy something new with.