itsanything Posted September 19, 2017 Posted September 19, 2017 Why do some women just never initiate conversation or initiate dates etc? It gets annoying sometimes, although I have dated women like that.
basil67 Posted September 19, 2017 Posted September 19, 2017 I would imagine the reason is that they aren't particularly interested. Or they expect to be treated like a princess. Not worth bothering with in my opinion. 2
Redhead14 Posted September 19, 2017 Posted September 19, 2017 Why do some women just never initiate conversation or initiate dates etc? It gets annoying sometimes, although I have dated women like that. I think that there are women out there who apply "early dating rules" well into a dating scenario. The early dating "rules" suggest that a woman let the man lead for a few dates. After she is satisfied with his demonstration of real interest and if she really likes the guy, she should start doing some initiating. Some women don't understand that she needs to reciprocate so that the guy doesn't feel like he's doing all the work. Some have the attitude, too, that it's the guys job to do just that. To me that's a little arrogant and princess-like thinking. Of course, sometimes it just means that they aren't interested enough. If a woman is accepting dates and calls, etc. beyond, say 3 dates, and hasn't been reciprocating in any way, the best you can do is encourage her to reach out by saying something like "hey, I want you to think of something special or different you'd like to do and get back to me and we'll set up a date and time. I'm kinda running out of ideas" -- something like that or "I like it when the girl I'm dating sends me a message during the day. It brightens it up". Have a casual conversation about what they like in terms of communication in between dates, etc., and tell them what you like. Men need reassurance too. There are lots of posts on these boards from women who get their panties in a wad because a guy isn't calling or texting enough, etc. (I'm a woman, by the way
uncorked Posted September 19, 2017 Posted September 19, 2017 I'm kinda this. I'll initiate texts but not really dates until I've been out with someone a few times. However, if I'm interested, he will know. 1
mortensorchid Posted September 20, 2017 Posted September 20, 2017 That's acceptable for the initial stages of it, such as if you meet in real life or online, but ... NEVER reaching out after a certain point is not a good sign that she is into you.
coolheadal Posted September 20, 2017 Posted September 20, 2017 Why do some women just never initiate conversation or initiate dates etc? It gets annoying sometimes, although I have dated women like that. Just some of them don't known how too! Shy Cold Stressed Depressed Independent Not interested Dating someone else
fred123 Posted September 20, 2017 Posted September 20, 2017 Just some of them don't known how too! Shy Cold Stressed Depressed Independent Not interested Dating someone else No such thing as shy cold depressed or stressed. Even if a girl was like this but into you you would know!there is only one answer. She aint interested!
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