Author Konomoriati Posted September 20, 2017 Author Posted September 20, 2017 What if how they communicate about the daughter is facebook messages. They do not communicate on Facebook. The guy do not use his Facebook. He does not post anything on that. The problem here is her obsession in searching for him
Gaeta Posted September 20, 2017 Posted September 20, 2017 But this kind is behaviour is not normal. I cannot live with a person who is constantly searching for other guy on a social.media, that has to.mean something. She is not.over him, my first thought . No it's not normal. It's also only the part you are seeing. She is checking out in other ways but you are not aware of it. I have a friend who has the same dysfunction as your girlfriend. She had been with her boyfriend for 2 years and she was still spying on her ex. Her spying went as far as checking his credit cards to see if he was going to restaurants with women, she was checking his FB, and she went as far as having a double of his keys and she'd go snoop in his home when he wasn't there. It's a illness, a mental illness that is hard to fight. My friend continued spying on her ex and started spying on her bf as well. She created online accounts to check his phone and his text, she checked every drawers in his home, closets, etc. His browsing history, his bills, everything. Your gf has an obsession dysfunction, This is not something you want in your life.
umirano Posted September 20, 2017 Posted September 20, 2017 [...]but I think that this behavior is not normal and I am not well with that. That'd be my position. Easy to say for me, but you should move on. You are a rebound / emotional crutch. People hardly ever move up from that role. 1
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