Venombanan Posted September 19, 2017 Posted September 19, 2017 (edited) /|\|\|\|\ Warning Wall of Text Imminent /|\|\|\ So, where do I start. Well I met this girl in my math class senior year of high school, started small talk just to introduce myself, which is pretty hard for me in the first place. I knew she was having some trouble but I never really offered to help outside of class, then out of the blue she asked if I wanted to meet at Starbucks. I said sure, obviously. Later that day she text me and said that she found out that the HW was optional, not required, she still wanted to meet at Starbucks though. So we hung out, did the optional HW and then parted ways. This was a Friday night. Later the next week I brought up that we should do dinner sometime, she was fine with that so all was in order. When I met her there we ate and from my perspective we had a pretty good time. When the check came I started to grab the check before I even had a chance to react. Obviously I was like nah, I'll get it, but damn she was persistent. I let it go. It then said I'll get the next one, kinda suggesting I'd like to hang again. When we headed out I have her a hug and started to drive away. I was at a stop light and she pulled up behind me and flipped me off.... then started laughing. A few weeks went by, summer started but we still talked through texts. She invited me to her graduation party but I was going on vacation the day of it but she did come to mine. I said that we should do dinner before she headed to basic training for the Air Force. (oh, I didn't mention that) But I know that she had a lot of **** going on about three weeks before she left. so if you can guess, we didn't get that date settled before she left. She's been there for two or three weeks now and I just sent her a letter, which is honestly such a strange feeling since I've grown up with instant messaging. Sent that out so it should be there in the next day or two. I have some really strong feelings for this girl and from what I can make out she may be interested. The fact that she doesn't take **** from anybody is why I find her so attractive, and she's quite good lookin. Basic is a whole other thing, probably didn't want to start anything before hand if that's the case. But yeah, what do you guys think? Is there a possibility here or am I just getting the wrong signals. If she writes back I'll update this post. Thanks guys! Note: I don't plan on rushing anything when she gets back, Take things easy for awhile until she gets adjusted back. Edited September 19, 2017 by Venombanan
d0nnivain Posted September 21, 2017 Posted September 21, 2017 As much as I caution against a friends first approach to dating because it's usually mixing up two concepts (friends meaning platonic & no romance v. dating which is getting to know somebody slowly by spending time with them but not rushing sex) here while she's in the Air Force, you don't have another choice. Keep up contact. Do send snail mail & an occasional treat from home like a candy bar. Get to know each other over the distance but don't expect too much. Understand you are both free to date others & you should avail yourself of that option. See what happens when she comes home. If base isn't too far consider going to visit her again as friends with no sexual expectations.
Recommended Posts