Blanco Posted September 21, 2017 Posted September 21, 2017 No one has said it wouldn't affect them. No one has said moving on is effortless. What people are saying is that you need to, for your own benefit, stop reading so much in to what your ex does. She's gone. 2
ExpatInItaly Posted September 21, 2017 Posted September 21, 2017 Either way someone has clearly told her friends to check out my page/story. You wouldn't do that if you were over someone surely? Also I should point out her brother has told me a few times to forget her that she's moved on, doesn't think about me, doesn't miss me, and it's time I moved on too. I have no reason to doubt him at all on that. But he also mentioned recently she's gone very moody, keeps herself to herself and has gone really quiet with the family.... Eh, you're under-estimating the curious, voyeuristic aspects of social media. People are always checking out what exes are up to, even years after the splits, primarily because they can and humans are nosy creatures. It doesn't necessarily mean they're not over the ex or want them back. As far as her being moody - you're really reaching on that one. There are endless possibilities why she might be feeling down, and I hate to break it to you, but they're likely not related to the guy she dumped months ago and whose reconciliation attempts she rejected. I don't mean to be harsh, but you're reading far too much into that. 2
kortz Posted September 21, 2017 Posted September 21, 2017 Either way someone has clearly told her friends to check out my page/story. You wouldn't do that if you were over someone surely? Also I should point out her brother has told me a few times to forget her that she's moved on, doesn't think about me, doesn't miss me, and it's time I moved on too. I have no reason to doubt him at all on that. But he also mentioned recently she's gone very moody, keeps herself to herself and has gone really quiet with the family.... The thing is she could very well not be over you but that doesn't mean she wants to get back with you. Even dumpers can hurt and need time to mourn the relationship and miss the bond they once had but they will still stand by and believe in their reasons for ending the relationship. And unless they initiate any reconciliation you should assume that their mind hasn't change from the breakup no matter how much you want to read into things like this.
lolablue17 Posted September 21, 2017 Posted September 21, 2017 (edited) One of the rights of people who were dumped, is the right to brag about their new life after moving on, and showing the ones who dumped them that they're having fun. If it may help to boost their (the ones who were dumped) ego, who not? It's a basic human right :p So for me, even you would have said that you put the pics with the girls on purpose, it's legitimate, without the need to give anyone excuses for doing that. I have an old ex who dumped me years ago. I don't care about her, I forgot her, but I will always pleased to to make her jealous. It's a small joy that I certainly deserve. I hate when people envy me, with the exception of my ex's... :-) About your ex, I will always be interested to know some news or gossip about people I knew from the past, even from long time ago, and of course ex's are on the top of that list. So her interest to watch and see details about you, doesn't say much. Edited September 21, 2017 by lolablue17
Author Rko28 Posted September 24, 2017 Author Posted September 24, 2017 I've genuinely not thought about making her jealous at all, guess that's not in my character. Thinking about it now I could probably make her jealous but I'd have no pleasure in that at all. I kept off Instagram these past few days but posted a picture today, simple one just of a band I saw this weekend. Checked and now her sister has unfollowed me also, perhaps even blocked me. It's no skin off my nose as I've cut them all out of my life these past 3 months but everything to happen in the space of a few days makes me wary something is going on, and not in a good way.
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