Five weeks in and only three dates

[bpb2017]

This is horrible advice

 

Nothing good ever came from tinder..

 

Look at the app store reviews for all the apps, Tinder not only scores the highest but so many people meet their gfs/bfs on there. I'd say about half my friends met their gfs on tinder. Most guys that use POF or Match probably are too ugly to get matches on tinder. Girls on POF or Match will have unreal expectations, especially after paying money (this is the downfall of dating apps that aren't free).

 

If you're a girl on tinder and find it terrible then you are probably ugly/fat, have no defence mechanism, have trust issues, unable to weed out the bad guys from the good or come off as angry (I'm surprised how many girls have such negative profiles, it's better to just write nothing).

[Echo74]

Okay, so I thought I had thick skin but uh, maybe not so much.

 

A guy messaged me and we exchanged several messages over the week. Then after the third message I noticed that he blocked me. Honestly, it does bother me especially since I didn't find him attractive at all. I wanted to just give it a chance and not be so visually attracted. I know it was one of two things that I had mentioned in my message that turned him off. I cannot believe that I'm feeling this way about being blocked by someone who I didn't find attractive in the first place, lol! So I put my account on hold or whatever it's called. I need a break from this sad dating site.

[Snow_Queen]

For months now, I've tried eharmony and have about 1 date a month. Unfortunately, none seemed interested in anything other than casual dinner dates here and there.

 

Online dating on any site is exhausting. Even the paid sites are filled with people only looking to "hang out" on occasion. I can say that most of my success (as in actually landing a date) has come from me reaching out to those I find appealing. It's a lot of work but sometimes you do need a break.