Carti Posted September 17, 2017 Posted September 17, 2017 I met this girl on tinder and we hit it off straight away. I got her snapchat so we started snapchatting eachother pretty much all day everyday for 2 weeks and went out couple of times. First date I asked her out which turned out really well. Second one she asked me out to go clubbing with her friends. We were dancing, really touchy and hooked up. A couple days later she became distant and less responsive to my snapchats, which i thought was unsual as we used to snapchat eachother all the time about anything. So i hit her up about it and asked her whats up. She replied with she doesnt know what she wants blah blah.... i told her i didnt know what i wanted either i thought we were just hanging out and having fun seeing where its going. She said shes not sure if thats what she wants then she initially said it wasnt a good idea to see eachother anymore. I really thought it was going well. I mean she told her dad, her friends about me, after the first date she said she liked me and hopes "us" is going somewhere good. I really dont know what happened i havent talked to her in 4 days and its been kinda hard. Do you think she'll be back?
kendahke Posted September 17, 2017 Posted September 17, 2017 ~I met this girl on tinder and we hit it off straight away. ~she asked me out to go clubbing with her friends. We were dancing, really touchy and hooked up. ~A couple days later she became distant ~She replied with she doesnt know what she wants blah blah. ~She said shes not sure if thats what she wants then she initially said it wasnt a good idea to see each other anymore. I really dont know what happened i havent talked to her in 4 days and its been kinda hard. Do you think she'll be back? The sex probably didn't do it for her and she decided to make her exit. No, she probably won't be back unless she wants to turn you into her emotional tampon. Don't do it. Bait the hook, drop the line and move on. 2
Stephie37 Posted September 17, 2017 Posted September 17, 2017 (edited) It was only casual and lasted 2 weeks. Call it a fling and move on. She lost interest. It happens. Don't let it bruise your ego or self esteem. She doesn't know what she wants anyway. It's better this way than wasting your time. Figure out what you want - and once you do, don't settle for less. Dating is about finding your match. It's simple as that and not complicated as people make it to be. So keep dating for experience and don't get hung up getting attached so quickly. This will help you in your dating life in the future. Good Luck and keep putting yourself out there. Edited September 17, 2017 by Stephie37 1
Author Carti Posted September 17, 2017 Author Posted September 17, 2017 We didnt sleep together we just made out, held hands etc... i just dont get it she seemed really interested thats why i dropped my guard down and all of sudden in a matter of a day or two she just lost interest? This has never happened to me before, from my experience when a girl is this close to me it always ended up into a relationship. Just confused really.
kendahke Posted September 17, 2017 Posted September 17, 2017 We didnt sleep together we just made out, held hands etc... i just dont get it she seemed really interested thats why i dropped my guard down and all of sudden in a matter of a day or two she just lost interest? This has never happened to me before, from my experience when a girl is this close to me it always ended up into a relationship. Just confused really. She changed her mind. It does happen. Bait, drop and move on.
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