Author georgiagirlie Posted September 20, 2017 Author Posted September 20, 2017 (edited) Hey all, for anyone who is interested, I just wanted to let you know that everything has been resolved And I feel we are stronger than ever now Just had a little conversation, didn't take much, and thankfully everything is great. Also, by the by, I mentioned to a close friend about this issue, and told her about my posting in this forum, referred her to it even, and she read the whole feed. I asked her how I came across and as some people were hating one me. Lol. I thought you guys might be interested to know that she said I came across a little differently in the thread than she knows me in real life. She said I came across as a bit jealous of my bf's kids in the thread, which she knows I am totally NOT. So I thought tht was interesting. I truly care about his kids. More than their own mother at times I feel. I guess I just assumed as a starting point that people would appreciate that I understand how important a parent is to their children, and I am never trying to take anything away from them. And I know they have needs that I dont have. But, given that as a starting point, it doesnt mean that a partner should treat their partner with a lack of respect, and consequently I don't think it means that kids should come first in every single situation. But I know even as I write this again now people will be whipping back at me saying, gf's and partners always come second. But really, trust me, I love and give so much to his kids. But sometimes I have to be on the receiving end too. And this was one of those instances. And my bf acknowledges that himself. He apologised, saif he didnt want to make me sick, had bought me a gift etc, said he was so upset he hd made me so upset, and we hung out tonight and had a great night, and are rescheduling the anniversary night for this Friday I think the whole cycling this was a miscommunication, and it never happened anyway. Common sense says that if the child is well, he will do the activity and then have dinner with you is planned. But if the child is sick, then neither activity will be happening. Ok, thanks again guys. xx Edited September 20, 2017 by georgiagirlie 2
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