Author fred123 Posted September 17, 2017 Author Posted September 17, 2017 If she is your gf then she will want to spend time with you, want to arrange things so that you two can be together, she will bend over backwards to make sure she can spend special occasions like New Year with you. She will not make you feel scared and instead she will make you feel loved and wanted. Anyone especially early doors, who is not making a relationship comfortable and easy, is not worth bothering with. Things rarely get better with those type of people, they simply tend to get worse as time goes on. Yh we werent gf at the time. We had been seeing each other for 2.5 months/ 3months newrly by then
elaine567 Posted September 17, 2017 Posted September 17, 2017 Yh we werent gf at the time. We had been seeing each other for 2.5 months/ 3months newrly by then OK but people who are really into one another want to spend time together whether they have a "label" or not. If she is still putting you off after 8-12 weeks and refusing to make any plans to see you, then the relationship is not progressing and without progress you have nothing.
Author fred123 Posted September 17, 2017 Author Posted September 17, 2017 OK but people who are really into one another want to spend time together whether they have a "label" or not. If she is still putting you off after 8-12 weeks and refusing to make any plans to see you, then the relationship is not progressing and without progress you have nothing. So its definitely not pressuring to ask in advance?
elaine567 Posted September 17, 2017 Posted September 17, 2017 So its definitely not pressuring to ask in advance? People who are into you are happy to make plans to see you, they do not see that as "pressure", why would they?
Author fred123 Posted September 17, 2017 Author Posted September 17, 2017 People who are into you are happy to make plans to see you, they do not see that as "pressure", why would they? Dont know what other reasons women could have to say that. But yh i guess that makes sense. It wasnt like im inviting a girl to meet my family or get married or even attend a weddig as a plus one. If that was the case id understand haha. But is her saying " she spends every year with a guy/boyfriend so this year she wanted to do with friends " is that understandabale?
MidwestUSA Posted September 17, 2017 Posted September 17, 2017 Dont know what other reasons women could have to say that. But yh i guess that makes sense. It wasnt like im inviting a girl to meet my family or get married or even attend a weddig as a plus one. If that was the case id understand haha. But is her saying " she spends every year with a guy/boyfriend so this year she wanted to do with friends " is that understandabale? I hate to have to translate it for you, but here goes. She didn't want to spend NYEve with YOU. I'm sorry, Fred, but this girl strung you along, as others have said. Has it been nearly two years? Time to move on. 1
Author fred123 Posted September 17, 2017 Author Posted September 17, 2017 I hate to have to translate it for you, but here goes. She didn't want to spend NYEve with YOU. I'm sorry, Fred, but this girl strung you along, as others have said. Has it been nearly two years? Time to move on. Well next time i wont put up with bull****. You know something. Its so much easier if a girl ghosts u or doeent reply to your dates at least i know she aint interested
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