Dani999 Posted August 13, 2005 Posted August 13, 2005 Hey, I’m freaking out and need to know your opinions. I have plans with my boyfriend for today to go to a cookout which started over an hour ago and then after that to a Jack and Jill that we have been planning to go to for a month and a half now. I last talked to him last night and he was asking me how the weather was going to be for today and stuff. I asked him what I should wear since I’ve never been to a Jack and Jill and he told me to just look nice like I usually do. Well, today I went out and bought a new outfit, went and got my nails and toes done, and spent all day getting ready to look great for tonight. Well he hasn’t called me all day. I’ve been calling him, but he hasn’t answered any of my calls. I just called his house and his dad said that he went to the cookout and when I told him that he had invited me and that I have been waiting for him all day, he was shocked and had no idea. We have been together for 4 year and have had rocky times, but lately things have been great. That’s why I don’t get why he is blowing me off to something he invited me to forever ago and that he knew I was so excited to go to. Sad thing is that I still have my hopes up and that he is going to show up at my door any second, but I think I am being foolish for still waiting for that. I don’t understand why he is doing this and what I should do. I'm really hurt. Thanks all.
Iluvsiamese Posted August 14, 2005 Posted August 14, 2005 This doesn't look good. It is extremely unkind to lead you on about these events and then attend them without you. This is not how someone acts if they care about you. If you can't think of any possible reason, then my guess is that he wants to break off but hasn't the guts to do it right. So he is trying to make you do it by behaving this way. So what eventually transpired? Did he have a good explanation for this? (Though I can't imagine what a "good" explanation might be!)
Outcast Posted August 14, 2005 Posted August 14, 2005 What time was the cookout supposed to start? I bet that it started earlier than you thought and that when he went to pick you up you weren't there so he went thinking he was stood up.
Outcast Posted August 14, 2005 Posted August 14, 2005 Read LS for a while. Rather than call someone, a person will get all in a snit about being 'stood up' without calling to see what happened. Happens all the time.
upsetnhurt Posted August 14, 2005 Posted August 14, 2005 Outcast, They have been going out for four years.....we are past the games I would hope. If not, it is indicative of other problems.
933KJL Posted August 14, 2005 Posted August 14, 2005 What is a Jack and Jill? With a 4 year relationship under your belt and the friendship you apparently have with his dad, I might suggest taht something is wrong or there was a misunderstanding. Talk to him and see what the dealio is. I would not assume you are breaking up after this just yet--there could be a reasonable excuse.
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