Addison Posted August 13, 2005 Posted August 13, 2005 My whole drama filled reconciliation is in "Yesterday he came back..." if you don't know what's going on with my situation. Anyways, things have been going good for us. Well, not spectacular, but good considering. My ex and I have been hanging out and talking. He has had me over to spend time with his family and we have made plans for next weekend. Everything that we do only indicates that there is going to be a future for us. He seems truly sincere about this reconciliation in every way but one. He won't call me. He waits for me to contact him and I can't stand it. My feelings on this matter are that if he wants to be with me then he would take the initiative to contact me first. He should miss me and want to talk to me. Instead he just sends me txt msgs or waits for me to call him. I'm so confused. I addressed the issue with him and he acted like it was no big deal. And yet he still hasn't called me first. He is out of town this weekend (with my friends which is a totally different story) so I haven't heard from him since Thursday night. I want to call him so bad. I mean, I know he would talk to me and be glad to hear from me if I did, but I'm trying to be strong and not contact him. If he doesn't think about me or miss me enough to call me over a three day period then there's something wrong with this... and as much as I love him and want to make this work, I can't take the not knowing and the waiting. My heart has been hurt enough already. I know that this is going to take some time to get back to where we were before the break up... am I making too big of a deal out of his not calling? Maybe I'm just being silly.
heartnsoul Posted August 14, 2005 Posted August 14, 2005 Originally posted by Addison He seems truly sincere about this reconciliation in every way but one. He won't call me. He waits for me to contact him He's comfortable with the way things are going. He knows where you stand and what your feelings are for him. What I'm trying to say is....he doesn't feel any threat of you turning your back on him right now. I would try your absolute best to NOT CONTACT HIM. You made your feelings known that you felt frustrated for always being the one to reach out. Now, you need to show him that it's not OK. You're entitled to those feelings and they're justified. I'm glad that he came around be he needs to make just a lil more effort to show you that he cares about your feelings. Be strong! Your situation does seem hopeful
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