Lillyb Posted September 13, 2017 Posted September 13, 2017 My player ex boyfriend and I were "friends" for a few months after our breakup. We flirted around and he wanted to get back together again eventually (but only wanted sex) And I said maybe in the future... But then I met a decent guy in college and started to like him so I told my ex politely to not contact me anymore in respect to that. He asked me for nudes again after the breakup too which is another reason why I told him to stop contacting me (I didn't give him that reason of course) but he thanked me for being honest and wished me happiness with the new guy. I think it's the best decision I made because I made a mistake of sending nudes to him in the past and now I can finally let go and be with a decent guy... What do you think?
1fish2fish Posted September 13, 2017 Posted September 13, 2017 Don't be surprised if after a few days or weeks, you hear from the ex again. He's going to test that boundary. This is why YOU should take preemptive measures and completely block and delete every channel of communication with him. Good luck with new guy! 1
tnt41 Posted September 13, 2017 Posted September 13, 2017 Yes, that's great! Also, I second the blocking. He will probably reach out again. 1
stillafool Posted September 13, 2017 Posted September 13, 2017 Enjoy your new bf and block your ex. Why are you asking us what we think? Aren't you happy? 1
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