orto Posted August 13, 2005 Posted August 13, 2005 Well, I'm now going down same road as many of you. Just about a month ago me and my ex broke up after 5 1/2 years. Now, the way she did it was kind've odd. I went out one night with a couple of buddies of mine, and I had asked her "Hey, do you wanna come with us", and she replied "No, because your friend is driving, and you're not, so no, im not coming". I said "Ok" and left. She apparently wanted to come but didn't want to drive. She called me 10 minutes later when I was already on my way and asked where I was. I said "Im on my way out". She said "F U" and hung up. I didn't know this until the next day, but she "wanted" to drive out and could've met me at the place we were going, but decided to take things into an immature state and start an unncesssary fight. We tried to talk a few after, but that fell through. Anyway, a month has past and she has just decided after all the darkness and unanswered questions that she just wants to be left alone completely, just to cut off contact altogether. This kind've made my angry, because after a month she is just coming to realize that? I mean should I be angry or understanding and thankful that she has actually came with up an answer and not left me in the dark as usual ( and let me tell how miserable that is), but my real question is; Will seeing other people aid in my recovery? Can I truely jump into another relationship yet, or should I wait, and take things slow and steady?
Rocko Posted August 13, 2005 Posted August 13, 2005 Rebound relationships rarely work. The other questions, only you can answer.
brittanyjean259 Posted October 11, 2005 Posted October 11, 2005 rebounds are bad karma...dont do that...be on your own..or you will always do that on your other breaks up and the harmless victims hearts that you break... will haunt you and come back... 5 years? at first no it wont help it will get your mind on it but just postpone the healting process...
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