Author Sandy9634 Posted September 15, 2017 Author Posted September 15, 2017 Was it an arranged marriage/engagement? Yes it was an arranged.
Author Sandy9634 Posted September 15, 2017 Author Posted September 15, 2017 This is a complicated one! However, I would encourage you to really examine yourself introspectively. What are the facts of each situation? Why did the first relationship of 4 years end? What were the issues there? I think you'll find some strong answers to those questions that will help make your decision now. In addition, what are the strengths in your current relationship? There's something to be said about the partner who knows you really well and still wants to be a strong, loving support to you. Is this the kind of relationship you're currently in? I would also suggest seeking wiser, older counsel from someone you trust. Their outside perspective could be very beneficial to you. I hope things turn out positively. Remember, you deserve to be treated with respect and dignity in any relationship. My boyfriend is very loyal to me. Not only he loves me alot but also use to share everything he do no matter what it is, he use to tell me everything. He is serious about me more the I am for him. We both trust on each other. He was the one who supports me when I was going through a hard time. I know his past he knows mine we have accpted it. This is the strength of our relationship. Whenever I miss my ex because it was a long relationship, he never get jealous. He use to encourage me every time.
ToGoFruit Posted September 16, 2017 Posted September 16, 2017 It seems like he's a solid partner to have in your life. We all bring shortcomings into relationships, but it sounds like his ultimate desire is to support and care for you. I would still encourage you to seek wiser, older counsel in a safe environment. It always helps to have a healthy outside perspective on your situation. I hope it works out well for you. Again, you're worth being cared for and treated with respect. 1
todreaminblue Posted September 16, 2017 Posted September 16, 2017 i agree with togofruit seek counsel from a trusted source......do not go back to a guy who has a commitment to another...exes are exes for a reason......as far as flaws in your current bf .......habits can be worked upon......you arent going to find a perfect man.......they dont exist.....bu tmaybe when you find that someone perfect for you....he will be the guy....who treats you well...has love respect and trust for you...and the same back from you...add honesty.....and thats a foundation you can build upon to a really happy relationship..good luck..deb
chphan Posted September 16, 2017 Posted September 16, 2017 Dear, I love my boyfriend. I jst want him to get out of his habits. You do not love your boyfriend. Girls who love their boyfriend don't even think or consider about their ex. You aren't right in the head.
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