soret Posted September 10, 2017 Posted September 10, 2017 Hey everyone, I've recently been talking/seeing this guy over the past two months. I'm really into him and he seemed to be really into me but has been sending me mixed signals recently. We have been on two dates. Today we were supposed to be on our third. On the first date I suggested places to go to since he was unsure of where to take me (he's very new to town) and our second date I had to confirm if we were still on the day of the date. This morning I texted him and asked if we were still on for our date today. He said "sorry but I may have to postpone for today because I have to finish this assignment that is due today". I said "okay, I will make other plans" and that was it. I kind of feel like he should have told me earlier on that he had to cancel and not the day of the date. Nor should I be the one to ask whats going on. Should I wait for him to reach out and plan something else or is he playing games with me and I should forget about him?
Logo Posted September 10, 2017 Posted September 10, 2017 (edited) Move on to the next person. He should be excited to see you not lukewarm. Edited September 10, 2017 by Logo
Author soret Posted September 10, 2017 Author Posted September 10, 2017 Move on to the next person. He should be excited to see you not lukewarm. I'll give him 3 days to get into contact with me. If he does nothing I will have my answer
Caramelpopcorn Posted September 10, 2017 Posted September 10, 2017 I'm wondering if it's truly a spur of the moment thing or this IS who he is as a person. I dated someone like this years ago, but we were both young and maybe that had a lot to do with it, but I constantly felt miserable due to him flaking last minute. I guess it depends on how much you like him.
spiderowl Posted September 10, 2017 Posted September 10, 2017 If he was keen, he would have been desperate to make sure you knew about the deadline he had to meet and that you would wait for him. He would have contacted you to make an alternative arrangement. The way he didn't both suggests he is lukewarm if that. You should not have to initiate things this early on. Best to move on.
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