Persistent with girl.

[reozeno]

Hi, i was wondering, do persistence ever or could work? or it justannoying?

 

The scenario is as simple as non reply text. Initially the girl respond (fast n late replies) but later is just going south. I think because im bit busy, i haven't gt the chance ask her out.

 

I wonder can you actually turn the situation into something? Or i should move on?

[d0nnivain]

It's hard to say.

 

Some girls like persistence. those girls are often immature & they do this to test a boy, to see if he'll really put in the effort to chase them.

 

Mature women find guys who can't take no (& no response is a no) for an answer to be annoying

 

That said, if the person you are texting is responding, even though she may take more time then you would prefer to get back to you, let her go at her pace & don't be a pest.

[Steve51]

The problem with all this online flirting is that it is so easy to misinterpret something. I still believe in the old fashioned way. I saw my wife on a train, actually walked over to her and started a conversation. Asked her out on a date for the next night. She said yes and 3 weeks later we were engaged. Now people try to find girls online to avoid the fear of talking to girls and rejection. All you both see is what you want the other person to see. Your imagination goes crazy and she is thinking one thing, or nothing at all, and you are thinking wild thoughts of your own.

 

I read about the panic if someone does not respond to a text immediately. What does it mean? Is she playing hard to get or does not want to bother with me? All very easily settled by being the type of man girls go for, and talk to her over the phone or wherever she hangs out. Women love self confident men. I lost count of the number of women I had sex with.

 

What usually happens is that the girl ends up with the guy who walked up to her and asked her out.

[basil67]

If you are to busy to ask her out, you're too busy to date her. Come back to dating when your life slows down a bit.

[reozeno]

It's hard to say.

 

Some girls like persistence. those girls are often immature & they do this to test a boy, to see if he'll really put in the effort to chase them.

 

Mature women find guys who can't take no (& no response is a no) for an answer to be annoying

 

That said, if the person you are texting is responding, even though she may take more time then you would prefer to get back to you, let her go at her pace & don't be a pest.

 

Thanks! but well...to be honest she has not replied recently...normally this is red zone. (no longer late reply). should i move on?

[reozeno]

The problem with all this online flirting is that it is so easy to misinterpret something. I still believe in the old fashioned way. I saw my wife on a train, actually walked over to her and started a conversation. Asked her out on a date for the next night. She said yes and 3 weeks later we were engaged. Now people try to find girls online to avoid the fear of talking to girls and rejection. All you both see is what you want the other person to see. Your imagination goes crazy and she is thinking one thing, or nothing at all, and you are thinking wild thoughts of your own.

 

I read about the panic if someone does not respond to a text immediately. What does it mean? Is she playing hard to get or does not want to bother with me? All very easily settled by being the type of man girls go for, and talk to her over the phone or wherever she hangs out. Women love self confident men. I lost count of the number of women I had sex with.

 

What usually happens is that the girl ends up with the guy who walked up to her and asked her out.

 

Even if the girl has actually turn cold towards you?

[GemmaUK]

If she is just not responding and hasn't, just move on.

[d0nnivain]

No response is a response. She's telling you to move on. Listen.