What the heck happened?

[bruised and broken]

Hi, trying this site to try to end my confusion. Have been in a solid relationship for 6 months or so, then on Fri after a mild argument (no exaggeration) she blows things up and on Fri, after she had a issue that was stressful, she declares she nbeed "me time". She refused to answer calls or text until Sun. at which poit she tells me we should just be friends. Out of the blue.

Please consider this: on the Thur.prior she states that Iam the best thing that ever happened to her. We have both expressed intamacy iasues, some with me taking medicine (both of us actually), her children who I adore are always sleeping in bed with hwr when at my house so we have no time or privacy, her friend has taken to coming over every time and I get kind oxf shuffled out so there is not even the intimacy of touch.

Note that she has a history of being abused and is a reovering addict (18mos) she also has mild bipolarI.

Also, I must admit that on Sat.I allowed myself to lose control of reason and called too may times. Not out of jealousy, but sheer confusion.

She continues to say she just doesnt feel a vibe anymore, but in entering this relationship we were slow and open about beinbg heart broken before and discussed how feelings can sometimes wane but you have to address them to get back on track.

Just confused to go from Youre the best thing that ever happened to Lets be friends in 48 hrs. Also, she has made no effort to get her clothes or kis clothes from my house. Never had a major fight nor has there been a single time of this before. Nothing even close. Help please!

[ExpatInItaly]

Hi, trying this site to try to end my confusion. Have been in a solid relationship for 6 months or so, then on Fri after a mild argument (no exaggeration) she blows things up and on Fri, after she had a issue that was stressful, she declares she nbeed "me time". She refused to answer calls or text until Sun. at which poit she tells me we should just be friends. Out of the blue.

Please consider this: on the Thur.prior she states that Iam the best thing that ever happened to her. We have both expressed intamacy iasues, some with me taking medicine (both of us actually), her children who I adore are always sleeping in bed with hwr when at my house so we have no time or privacy, her friend has taken to coming over every time and I get kind oxf shuffled out so there is not even the intimacy of touch.

Note that she has a history of being abused and is a reovering addict (18mos) she also has mild bipolarI.

Also, I must admit that on Sat.I allowed myself to lose control of reason and called too may times. Not out of jealousy, but sheer confusion.

She continues to say she just doesnt feel a vibe anymore, but in entering this relationship we were slow and open about beinbg heart broken before and discussed how feelings can sometimes wane but you have to address them to get back on track.

Just confused to go from Youre the best thing that ever happened to Lets be friends in 48 hrs. Also, she has made no effort to get her clothes or kis clothes from my house. Never had a major fight nor has there been a single time of this before. Nothing even close. Help please!

 

This is what happened.

 

You're dealing with a person who is not very emotionally stable and has underlying issues.

[Been]

Her actions don't match her words. She's up and down and will always be like that. She likes drama and I would not take her back because in all honesty she doesn't know what she wants.