downinthedump Posted September 3, 2017 Posted September 3, 2017 So long story long...Ima try to keep it short. Just wanted people's perspective and/or assessment. -Met a girl about 4 weeks ago. -Been back and forth messaging for the last 3 weeks tryin to both meet up but we were both always busy. Sometimes both taking over a day or more to reply to each other -then finally 3rd week we meet up and grab dinner, we go back to my place. We kind of hook up, heavy make out, heavy petting, disrobed almost but everything but sex. She wanted to stop, which i thought was cool Figured first date don't want to get to it already. -We were supposed to hang out next day after that, but i was super busy didnt get a chance to. -4 days later i give her a "whats up" text... i get no reply -a day after that i now call her to see if she wants to hang out, she agrees...but i guess its sort of a double text which i know is a no-no -we got out for a quick drink or two. i go in for a kiss at the bar, she turns away.... -i try again for another kiss at a more private area... she declines again and says to me "lets not do that, i'm actually kind of seeing someone, but i'm not seeing someone, thats why i left the other night , but we're not together i dunno" -so now i'm perplexed so i just say " thats cool, lemme know if it doesn't work out. I'm not trying to just be friends with you, rather see you romantically" -so that was a few days ago,... and now we're here , she still views my snapchat stories and comments on them . So what the heck now,... -Is it a wrap? Let it go? -Obviously the gameplay is to fallback .just not contact her , maybe wait for her to contact? ignore? -Still a chance or nah? -Did i over pursue or show too much interest? -Could things have gone better if i did something differently? Why not mention another dude on the first meeting? Did i mess up the second hang out ? -Does anyone follow coach Corey Wayne? Says something like no contact, or fallback to create reattraction? i dunno what do you guys think?
hercules22 Posted September 4, 2017 Posted September 4, 2017 hmm thats a bad sign if she pulled away then told you outright she is kinda seeing someone else she must like the other guy more. I would just go full no contact wait for her to set something up . looks like she may be confused not sure who she really likes but seems to be more into whoever the other person is
elaine567 Posted September 4, 2017 Posted September 4, 2017 I guess she was iffy about you, but on the date she somewhat got aroused and let it play out for a while, but was not going to go the full way as she wasn't that into you as there is another guy on the scene. Next date she isn't interested in even kissing you and tells you about the other guy. I guess he is her ex or her crush. However sometimes women mixed up with MM, will go on dates to "even" the score, or because they feel they should, or they feel they want to move on, but their heart isn't in it.. That may explain the " i'm actually kind of seeing someone, but i'm not seeing someone," = he is married/attached. Whatever the reason may be I guess she isn't into you so you need leave her alone, as you are wasting your time. Women who are interested, act interested and not wanting to kiss you after practically almost having sex with you the last time can NOT ever be interpreted a good sign...
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