Does she like me

[vyacc1]

So this co worker that is very high up in the company i asked out. She said no. She said she doesnt date co worker's. Months have gone by. Yesterday i was walking to my car and there she was in her car. She stopped me. We talked i tried several times to drop the conversation because i do like her alot, and she has already said no. She really wanted to chat. We talked about alot of personal stuff. When i got in my car i realized we were talking for an hour. So next day i go into work and see she had sent me an email 30 mins after our chat. To me that makes me think she was thinking of me on her drive home and emailed me. She gave me her number in the email. She used thr excusr to call her when i bring my daughter to work because she wanted to see her. Am i crazy? Does sh

e like me now?

[smackie9]

Stop worrying about it.

 

Play along and let her initiate all the contacting. If something happens, it will happen...if not, you didn't miss out on anything and you go on with your life.

[d0nnivain]

Unless she tells you that she changed her rule about not dating co-workers it doesn't matter. She still won't date you.

 

She may want to be friends with you. From what you wrote I can't conclude she wants to date you now.

 

More importantly the ball is in her court. She will set the pace of your interactions. Unless she asks you out, assume she does not want to date you.

[vyacc1]

You guys were wrong. She just texted me and asked if i would like to go out. No clue why i even asked when i already knew.

[d0nnivain]

You guys were wrong. She just texted me and asked if i would like to go out. No clue why i even asked when i already knew.

 

How was I wrong? I told you that if she wanted to go out with you, she'd ask you. Then gee whiz, she asked you on a date.

 

Happy for you. Enjoy