matxka Posted September 2, 2017 Posted September 2, 2017 Okay, so I met a really nice guy on tinder (I know, I know). We managed to go on a date 1 1/2 months after we matched because I wasn't in town during week and he was gone weekends, but now I am and we had a date. He's really busy at work but still found time, we decided to get drinks on wednesday - he paid, without hesitating. When I thanked him for paying, he said "no, thank you". Talked a lot, laughed, that kinda stuff. Real gentlemen, by the way. Later the bar closed, we decided to head to another location - one more drink (we weren't drunk, just a bit tipsy). Made out, talked a bit more, we went to my place. We didn't have sex, just made out, got a bit more intimate and cuddled. He stayed the night and when his alarm went off, I told him to go to work, but he snoozed it (like 5 or 6 times), said, no its okay, and we cuddled some more. He left at 9am, he was already late for work, gave me a goodbye-kiss on the lips. Asked him if we'd see each other again, he said he'd call me (yeah, THAT's the part that makes me think). Three or four hours later he called me and told me that he still had my 10$ (change for the taxi home; he didn't have any cash) and that he'd give it back next time. Told him it's okay, not necessary to return it, but he insisted, so I said he should give it to me next time. He then asked me if I could catch up on some sleep after he left, what I was doing, etc. End of phone call. Since then, he hasn't messaged or called me (I know that he's currently gone over the weekend, like I am, which he knows too, but still..) and I don't know how long I should wait. Maybe I'm a bit impatient, but I'll be gone for a week from thursday so I'd really like to know what this is all about. Should I text/call him on Monday or just wait it out? The fact that he answered with a simple "I'll call you" irritates me, but the fact that he called me without specifically asking for a second date, irritates me even more.
Miss Spider Posted September 2, 2017 Posted September 2, 2017 (edited) "I'll call you" is a clichest of all easy let downs. He said he'll call you, and he very well might, but I wouldn't wait. If you chase him, you might be able to squeeze a few more hook ups out of it Edited September 2, 2017 by Cookiesandough 3
d0nnivain Posted September 2, 2017 Posted September 2, 2017 It's a holiday weekend & you know he's away. You wait until Tuesday when the holiday is over. If you don't get in touch by Wednesday give up. 1
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted September 2, 2017 Posted September 2, 2017 Maybe I'm a bit impatient, but I'll be gone for a week from thursday so I'd really like to know what this is all about. It was a first date. That's what it's about. No need to stress out this early about things, especially on a holiday weekend. 1
smackie9 Posted September 3, 2017 Posted September 3, 2017 (edited) He didn't get laid....why do you think he kept hitting that snooze button? Because he was hoping you would initiate sex.....it didn't happen so..... Tip: don't invite men into your bed unless sex is going to happen. You are not a teenager and have sleep overs. You want a man to respect you, and want to see you again with the right intentions don't you? Guys will run when they end up being someone's cuddle muffin. Edited September 3, 2017 by smackie9 2
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