VC1207 Posted August 30, 2017 Posted August 30, 2017 (edited) Hi there, V here - 28/f I met this young woman at a party the other day and we seemed to hit it off. I had a few drinks and so did she. She was with her friend and I went up and introduced myself to both of them and started making conversation with the cute one lol. Turns out she's new to the city 23 (sooo young lol) I didn't expect her to be that young she came off older. Anyway we seemed to hit off, flirting, laughing ect she kept touching me.. I even pulled her to the dance floor and there was def chemistry. She had her shoulder out and I kissed it while we were dancing lolol (bold I know) and she enjoyed it After the party I ended up bringing her and her friend to meet up with my friends at a diner close by. Everything was going well.. she held my hand....more laughing, more flirting. more touching, touching my tattoo ect. After the diner my friends go home but her and her friend still want to hang - its about 3am and there is only one bar open at this time. We go.. she still holding my hand by the way.. I have one beer and she has a shot. I end up putting them in a cab home.. the train (nyc) would have taken them 1hr plus. . She tells me to text her when I make it home, I tell her the same. She gives me a tight hug and she leaves. I make it home finally and I let her know im home. Monday - she lets me know she made it home lol. Thanks me for the cab and tells me thank you for my good energy. We text a bit more over the day but not too much as Im working. The conversation was light and funny. I kind of keep it chill as I didn't want to keep bugging her or come off as being annoying. Before I went to sleep I text her a goodnight text and she doesn't respond.. No big deal - she could be sleep or busy ect. Tuesday - No response to last night's text. Ok fine - maybe she isn't into texting lol I reach out around 3/4 and see if she is available later for a phone call (maybe this is where I ****ed up lol). She responds "sure thing" I respond with an emoji sunglasses face - she didn't respond to it. Again I didn't think anything of it. I called her around 9 and she didn't pick up. I text her an hour later saying I tried to call.(Maybe that was wrong) No text response or call. She was giving me all the right vibes the night of... so maybe it was the alcohol? Did I **** it up? LOLOL I hate playing the dating games sooo much. Thoughts? Edited August 30, 2017 by VC1207
Zahara Posted August 30, 2017 Posted August 30, 2017 You didn't do anything wrong. It was a fun night. She enjoyed your company and that was it. A few days later, sober and with some clarity she sees things differently. It happens. Don't reach out anymore. 1
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