katty774 Posted August 12, 2005 Posted August 12, 2005 I was watching hooking up on tv and one of the girls brought up something that I to really want to know. So here is the question, why do men try so hard to get you to go out with them, and then brag, etc and make you feel like you are the most beautiful amazing sexiest, smartest, etc. woman on the planet and then out of no where without warning, after they have lifted you way up they just drop you with no reason and without warning? The girl on the show was talking about this and I could relate, so why do they lift us up so high to drop us down so low? Does anyone know? I know some will say it is for sex but what about when they still do this after they have gotten to that point. Any perspective on this would be great.
A Fly onThe Wall Posted August 12, 2005 Posted August 12, 2005 Sometimes it's all about the chase ... And that is it !!
LucreziaBorgia Posted August 12, 2005 Posted August 12, 2005 Because they build you up in their minds and create this highly idealized version of you in their minds and hearts - and that is what they pursue. When they 'catch' you and begin to see that the real you doesn't have much to do with the idealized version, they drop pursuit and set their sights on the next one. I guess that would be the 'thrill of the chase' types who become addicted to that heady initial hunt. It is when that rush wears off, and infatuation subsides, and they realize that they genuinely do like the actual person they are with - then they are less likely to drop off.
celticguy Posted August 12, 2005 Posted August 12, 2005 Because their horny and were manipulating you to get what they wanted Or they could just be head cases, you just don't know ! We find women just as confusing
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