j5353 Posted August 12, 2005 Posted August 12, 2005 Well.. I met a girl on the internet... We met in person and hit it off. She lives alone, and I live alone. She only works 3 days a week, so she has alot of free time. She lives about an hour away, so I cannot be with her every night. I do notice that she is always online. If i stop at home, she is online, and chatting on the net. All night she seems to be online and chatting. I can tell by her "idle" and "available" status. Personally, if I spend time chatting it is to meet someone. She claims I am the only person she ever met on the internet. She also claims to love me, only after a couple weeks. Am i too jealous? I know that women get over 100 offers a day on the internet if they are chatting. Do women simply just like to chat? I know that if I am in love and dating, having 100 women im me a night that want to sleep with me would be very tempting, so I basically stop chatting if I am in a relationship... It is far to easy to stray. So, I dont know how to handle this.. It bothers me, but I dont want to be a possessive jerk. Anyone else ever have this problem? These days, it just seems so hard to build trust. I dont want to control her life, but at the same time, part of me wonders if she is looking for someone to be there when I am not. I also notice she tells me she is going to bed early, but then she signs off the net at like 4am!!!! Is this worth even bringing up? Or would that be sign of lack of confidence.?
agnf666 Posted August 18, 2005 Posted August 18, 2005 Either she has alot of friends to talk to... or she has DSL or wireless intenet so that means that she just leaves her computer on all the time. She might do some online forum, myspace or something. If you really want to know just ask "I noticed you got offline at such and such time..., that's really late???" I just think she leaves he computer online by accident or something.
HokeyReligions Posted August 18, 2005 Posted August 18, 2005 What do women do on the 'net? Why, they come to LoveShack and complain so their men don't have to listen to them! See how thoughtful we are!
Pendawn Posted August 18, 2005 Posted August 18, 2005 Originally posted by j5353 Am i too jealous? I know that women get over 100 offers a day on the internet if they are chatting. Do women simply just like to chat? ROTFLMAO!!! HAve you never MET a woman? Of COURSE women like to chat, it's part of our chemistry. Seriously though if she posts on a message board, she probably posts on a few and probably has a lot of friends (female and male) online that she likes to chat to. Could also be she uses IM etc to chat to RL friends too. IMO women only get offers online if they are in specific places - eg chatrooms which have a dating or sexual theme, or unmonitored chatrooms. They don't just get hundreds of offers by simply being online. For example, women posting here on LS probably don't get offers - I know I never have. In fact I can't remember the last time I was propositioned online and I spend about 10 hours a day online. If you are curious to know what she's doing why not ask her? Ask if she's made mroe friends form that message board you met, ask if she has dial-up or braodband/cable, ask if she likes to IM friends etc. Just casual conversation though, not na interogation.
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