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Multi-dating, a guys perspective


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This is so funny...If I were a guy I wouldve written this! :laugh:

 

CryForNoOne, dont beat yourself up. I really dont doubt you had good intentions and never wanted to hurt anyone, hence why these women's reactions upset you

 

Dating isnt really a fair game, even when we try to be tread lightly and keep other's feelings in mind, people still get hurt

 

The only thing I would have done differently if I were in your shoes was hold off on sex until I was exclusive with someone but I'm a woman so... :laugh:

 

Just because you had dates, kisses and sex with these women doesnt mean you owed them a relationship. Like many, many women on here say... If we have casual sex with a guy, we have to be ok with the possibility of it being a one night stand (which is why I dont have casual sex because I wouldnt be ok with that). These women had sex with you without a commitment... its not like you promised them the world and then disappeared

 

What I think you should do now is stop multidating and focus on this awesome woman you really like. Once you find a good one, you know and I think it would be a great time to maybe hide your profiles and enjoy seeing where things go with her ;)

 

Btw, you did a much better job at multidating than I am! :laugh: I think testosterone is a much more conducive hormone to multidating than estrogen is :laugh:

 

Have fun with your new girl! ;)

Edited by Disillusionment373
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