johnflyr Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 I have dated my gf for nearly 2 months. For the past two weeks ago , she starts to refuse giving me any sex. she always claims that she is tired or she can't see me tonight because she is meeting another friend. She also calls me much less than before. Does any girl know what is going on with her? She said that my penis is too short for her yesterday, which was an unexpected comment from her. Is she cheating on me? does she still love me?
JS17 Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Whatever it is, it sounds fishy. There's always a reason that you stop having sex. I would suggest you confront her and find out or move on.
Author johnflyr Posted August 11, 2005 Author Posted August 11, 2005 I don't think the size of my penis matters because I did go pretty deep into her before and she never complains about it until yesterday. She must be cheating on me by sleeping with a guy with a bigger penis. What a slut!
Neptune Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 It`s just time for her to move on. She could use some work on her communication skills, but she got the point across. I wouldn`t get to worked up about it because waht she has done is to give you a reason that cannot be refuted. In other words, there is no room for negotiation. She wants to go.
clandestinidad Posted August 12, 2005 Posted August 12, 2005 Damn...that sucks How long is it? I'm suprised she actually said that to you....its pretty harsh. And by saying that its obvious that she wants out....it leaves no room for negotiation AND she purposely hurt you (b/c seriously, what girl doesnt know that criticizing a guys penis would crush him) Dump her before she dumps you....you'll feel better having it in your hands. If you wait for her to do it, it will really really hurt. Plus theres no reason to wait, b/c its inevitable. I'm sorry
Author johnflyr Posted August 12, 2005 Author Posted August 12, 2005 I asked her the reason for doing this to me, she just can't come up with a reason. She simply stated to me that i am not treating her well enough, which is totally BS. She also stated that if I can help her remodeling her house and paying some of her credit card bills, she will consider letting me touching her again. What a whore!
elijahBailey Posted August 12, 2005 Posted August 12, 2005 Originally posted by johnflyr She also stated that if I can help her remodeling her house and paying some of her credit card bills, she will consider letting me touching her again. WHAT!!! Dump her man! She ain't worth your time.
clandestinidad Posted August 12, 2005 Posted August 12, 2005 WHOA I cant believe she said that! What a b!t(h! GET RID OF HER!!!! She is manipulating you.....and very badly at that!! She's awful.....someone I would never be friends with, and NO ONE should date Does she really expect you to be her servant/father/top investor/etc by telling you that you "MIGHT be able to touch her" if/when you do ___?!?! Do you really think love/relationships should be so conditional??!? Dump this loser (how old are the 2 of you?)
Author johnflyr Posted August 15, 2005 Author Posted August 15, 2005 I am 25 and she is 21. She just likes attention from everybody and expects all the guys to treat her like a queen, but she never gives anything in return. She is using alll the guys. I don't know what is inside her brain? Sometimes she is very nice to me, but all the sudden she would complain about me and refuse to give me sex. She is a slut because she uses sex as a weapon.
JS17 Posted August 15, 2005 Posted August 15, 2005 I agree that she's being manipulative and is probably confused but calling her a slut won't help you. She has treated you badly and the "slut" attitude is only going to make you bitter (Trust ME). Just know that she is a crappy person and you deserve better than that. Do your best to just forget about her and move on.
Jayhawks Posted August 15, 2005 Posted August 15, 2005 Why are you even bothering with this BIT$H. She has shown you her true colors and since you don't want to be her hired hand just forget her. She really isn't even worth a post. You probably still like her because we always like the ones that treat us bad. Just human nature.
DeaconFrost Posted August 15, 2005 Posted August 15, 2005 Originally posted by JS17 I agree that she's being manipulative and is probably confused but calling her a slut won't help you. She has treated you badly and the "slut" attitude is only going to make you bitter (Trust ME). Just know that she is a crappy person and you deserve better than that. Do your best to just forget about her and move on. Completely right on here. Lay off the name calling and don't waste another minute of your time with this snatch. Jeez, I can't believe she has said all that s**t. Some people are just complete wastes of space. Here's a suggestion... BAIL OUT NOW!!! STOP READING THIS THREAD, PUT ON A CLEAN PAIR OF PANTS AND SHIRT, AND GO AND PUT THIS C-U-Next-Thursday IN HER PLACE (respectfully, of course ). If there's anything that I've learned, its that sex is an obvious indicator towards how a woman feels about a relationship. To put it mildly....your f**ked, dude.
Jayhawks Posted August 15, 2005 Posted August 15, 2005 C-U-Next-Thursday This is a new one. Never heard this expression..
DeaconFrost Posted August 15, 2005 Posted August 15, 2005 Not too shabby, eh? It's a covert way of saying what we really think without pissing off the rest of the female population for our word choice. You gotta be smooth, man
Author johnflyr Posted August 15, 2005 Author Posted August 15, 2005 Thanks. I call her a slut because she is sleeping with everyone else now but me. I don't care now and I have to cut my loss.
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