Motorhead0168 Posted August 29, 2017 Posted August 29, 2017 My ex is now living in New Brunswick (Canada) with her new married man whom she met while there last September and is currently apart from the wife and their two sons as of last week after he told her he was breaking up with her. My ex and him had been having an affair since this past January but his wife didn't know anything about it. Long story short he's cheated on her (the wife) in the past with at least one other woman but my ex seems to think he's the greatest guy on the planet and that their relationship is written in stone and will therefore last forever. She tells me quite a bit of what they do, etc. His wife told him on Sunday that she wanted to kill herself if he doesn't come back to her but I know this probably doesn't mean much in these situations. He lets her read the texts he gets from his wife. Anyway, do you people think my ex and him will last or will it be short-lived? She still wants to be my friend if that means anything. Sorry if my post is all over the place. I'm just curious what other people think of the situation and if you think the relationship will go down the toilet because it's based on an affair.
PegNosePete Posted August 29, 2017 Posted August 29, 2017 She still wants to be my friend if that means anything. Yes, it means you should say "no" and stop talking to her. Why do you care what happens to her now? She is not coming back to you whatever happens. The best thing you can do is to forget about it' It's none of your business any more.
Author Motorhead0168 Posted August 29, 2017 Author Posted August 29, 2017 Yes I get that but we were together for eleven years and had some good times and as such forgetting is easier said than done.
PegNosePete Posted August 29, 2017 Posted August 29, 2017 The first step is cut the lines of communication. You don't need constant reminders.
kortz Posted August 29, 2017 Posted August 29, 2017 Yes I get that but we were together for eleven years and had some good times and as such forgetting is easier said than done. I understand where you're coming from but it's not a good idea to be friends. Whether her new relationship will last or not shouldn't concern you, and if it does then that should tell you all you need to know about whether its a good idea to be friends with her.
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