noknow Posted August 29, 2017 Posted August 29, 2017 I went out once with a girl I met online and we clicked pretty well. Nothing romantic happened but we just got each other right away. She says she has puppies that she has to watch for her neighbor this weekend. But I am welcome to come over and check them out before we do anything. I see a clear opportunity. What cards do I play so I can advance on her, but at the same time be safe if she doesn't want to get sexual? It would be nice to hear from male and female.
PegNosePete Posted August 29, 2017 Posted August 29, 2017 at the same time be safe Well if you want to be safe then don't go into the home of someone you met online and have only met once in real life.
Author noknow Posted August 29, 2017 Author Posted August 29, 2017 There has to be a good strategy besides going all in.
Gaeta Posted August 29, 2017 Posted August 29, 2017 You only met her once so forget about having a strategy. Go over, be a gentleman. Are you interested in getting to know her or just in playing your game?
Bastile Posted August 29, 2017 Posted August 29, 2017 I see a clear opportunity. I bet you do, you rascal Just go there and feel things out. Though personally, I'd be concerned with kissing her, rather than sex. From the kiss, you can take things where you want them to go. Either sexual, or just nice. Women often will stop you when kissing passionately, because they don't want to lose their self control. Go with the kiss. Want some escalation? Put your hand softly around her throat whilst you kiss. Check for signs of submissiveness. But that's if you want to push it, which I'm not sure would be smart. Just get the kiss and go easy, I think - if it's the first one. If she doesn't want to kiss after 2 dates, you should be dumping her.
act00 Posted August 29, 2017 Posted August 29, 2017 You'll have the opportunity to touch her and even kiss her. Then, discuss heading out. Is she able to leave the house for a couple hours, or does she need to be around the whole time? You can suggest getting some takeout and watching a movie if she has to stay put. Some snuggle time on the sofa and some kissing, and this certainly can advance if she's willing. At least get some smooching and touching. If you go out, you'll have to stop back to drop her off/collect your car, and you can go in for puppy time again, maybe some more smooching, maybe more, or be on your way. 1
sandylee1 Posted August 29, 2017 Posted August 29, 2017 I think the first meeting is better in a public place personally.
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